Here is a great story from Craigslist?! Everyone should read!! Be safe brothers!

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.. his DUMB decision is not the norm, and now his sour grapes makes him feel he is the leading authority on TS women (though he now wants to call us dudes). I know of enough posts and reviews about GG (genetic girl) providers who offer BBFS and no one is naive here when it comes to the risks. Wrap it up ... have HER wrap it up and then no need for inflammatory posts on CL. Be SAFe out there everyone!

hugs,
Rachel

I think he is right on. CL is not the place to find a legit girl. It would be nice if this site was more proactive to the Ts community.

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Regardless of where you meet a lady!  
And that post just rings of regret and homophobia and transphobia. Calling a TS "he" is an insult to the ladies, and to all the gents here who admire us.
 I don't consider myself a he, or any of my Trans sisters. I don't see "gay" gents. They see me as a "she" , they see all providers as "she's"  
 I'd own that post up to stupidity on the CL posters part.
Thanks for bringing it to attention though..just a reminder to wrap it up!!

CL is definitely not the place, but I was referring to is it really puts into perspective to wear a hat.  Period.  All of the rest of the post is fluff and poor choices and some disrespect for the ladies.  Point to bring home is cover it up.

I considered the guy who posted on CL is part of LGBT community since he "know" everything about us.

This post is very much Transphobic and stereotyping, I know some of the gents here who only see the TS girl as a sex object may agree with the post, but the post was focusing on individual by stereotyping them as a whole.  

Why do guys need to attack a whole community just because someone disappointed you and then go back to chasing different tranny and hoping for the better. The amount of disrespect by him toward the TS community is overwhelming. It reminded me of someone who used to attack me, it was just so bad that I went numb.  

Unless you change your attitude yourself and have some respect for others, you will be treated the same as you treat them.

 

 


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and "brief insertive bareback anal".

Somebody is full of regret.

How "brief"?

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I totally agree with you that the post is bad.  That is someone who generalized a whole group of people.  Personally, I don't see TS women as sex objects.  Of course I find them beautiful, but they have a lot more qualities that I appreciate.  I appreciate TS women not because of the way they look, but because of their personalities.  I've dated genetic women and TS women, and personality-wise, I always found a TS woman to be more in touch with herself and more understanding.  It's like TS women have deeper understandings of themselves and the world and people in general.  I think that understanding caused by the pain they go through physically to transition PLUS the mental torture that some get from ignorant people. And to make things worse, some TS women have to deal with doing things they don't want to do because they need to make a lot of money to pay for transitioning, and on top of that they need money to survive, too.  And some TS women have to deal with the kind of disrespect that you pointed out.  You talked about changing attitude.  What do you think about the chances for change in guys like the guy on CL?  Did the person who used to attack you change?

Glad everyone has some input!! Love when a post gathers interest from everyone! Not just a sentence or two!

Hi Rockland,

In my opinion, i don't see anything wrong with guys who only see TS women as sex object, otherwise the companion business will not exist LOL, there are many men who see genetic women as sex object too and vice versa, but it's annoy me when these type of men generalized TS women or women in a bad way without knowing who they are personally, doesn't matter who they meet, they are stuck with sex.  

There are also many guys out there who appreciate TS women and treat us like normal human being and I know many of them.

As for your question about changing attitude, I just think they need to read more stuff online and must be willing to learn and meet TS women who are not just looking for sex but also companion and someone who can have intelligent conversation. I also aware that there aren't many TS women out there who are looking to meet for a normal regular date.

The person who used to attack me? I don't know if he changed cos i haven't heard anything from him, maybe he moved on with his life, I don't think you can change unless you surrounded with positive people who can take you into the right direction, not the people who always approve of what you are doing and live in the bubble, I know many people who disapproved me, but they are my friends and they love me, they aware of my struggle, so they leave me alone as long as I can take care of myself.

When I was living in my country I was being bullied, harassed, and abused just for being who I am, that could affect your life growing up, also your confidence, your goal and the creativities we have just went away once you feeling oppressed and I know many TS women going through similar situation, thats why many of us sometimes cannot forget our bad experiences and got carry on through out life which can affect us negatively. And those of us who can make it through and became successful in life are the bravest. I wrote my life experiences for being transgender on my website, however I do not represent every TS women in general, but perhaps some out there who has similar situation can relate to my story.
There are also many TS women who are lucky enough to have family who can support them financially, education, etc. I don't have that, but I am thankful that I make it this far.

Apologize if I am being too selfish and personal in this respond, but I hope this can give you some picture of how we (transgender) lives.

Thanks for reading.

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That CL post has opened the floodgates of the haters, now it seems TS Elle is being accused of being "sick" (which in the past she has defended herself) whether its true or not I dunno, ever since she had a boob job I've lost interest, though it seems she's not shallow like many of the other girls or CDs ( some that are downright scary IMO) seem to be.

You are right on the money with your observation. I despise these two faced frauds!. Either love or not love, is the bottom line (I didn't mean that to be a pun)...

I love well done boob jobs. Who is the Elle you speak of?...