1. Call for price negotiation. ( while in the ads, it has stated how much the "roses/kisses").  
The point is, If you talk about 'money changing hands', If there's an entrapment from LE. You're breaking the law ( either for solicitation and prostitution). Unless, in the ads/ websites, don't mention about the 'roses/kisses', by all means, ask).
So, the smart gentlemen usually don't discuss that at all. Cos, if you are a 'JOHN', you call an undercover girl/Sting and talk about 'money' for the service/sex (It's recorded & then money changing hands) you are going to jail.  
The same thing happens when a girl talk to undercover LE/Sting (It's recorded) & then 'money changing hands', you're screwed.    
Unfortunately, a lot of 'walking hard-ons' just don't seem to understand.  

2. Calls to make appointments and NEVER SHOWS UP, TIME WASTERS.  This piss off Every girl the most.  Esp. if you're travelling.  It only takes 1 bullshit call like this to ruin the whole day of a girl. . That's why somehow, you see, many girls after being lied to, don't take any appointment seriously after that, and jump to the most secured appointment they can get. ( The same thing happens, emails from unknown guys for appointments, but never follow up).

3. There are many jackasses who call to tell you that they want to see you, but 'will call back later when they have a 'chance' to get away.
I mean, Do you really think that those horny guys out there are only a few?  (Yes, these type of lunkheads are everywhere, esp. when you are travelling and you need to make the most of your time.
"So, Call when ready in advance & then set up the time".

4. Calls from heavy breathers, pretending to call and trying to make an appointments, while jerking off from your voice, and then hang up all of sudden. ( Yep, and some girls just take a deep breath, and some girls got their 'revenge' by doing something back to the jackasses lol).

5. And on and on and on...
Yep, those are pretty much that cause the 'fire burning' in California. :

As I'm one of those hobbyists that will get to know a provider a bit and will tell them to answer the phone unless we are deep in the mix of some playtime.  I've seen SO many get pissed about price negotiations.  

And flakes are a big part of this industry that I've seen thus far.  It's crazy how many guys will call just to flake out.  What a waste of time and energy.

Sometimes I call or email to ask a provider what time she is available until, because typically my sessions are late at night (as in midnight or slightly after). Yes, I do need time to "get away." I find that the TS girls I've called with this give me shit over it right away... like they automatically assume I'm wasting their time. It's a bit of a turn off.

Frankly, answering a simple, innocent question like that should be considered part of the job. I'm trying to plan ahead and see if its feasible to see the provider at the time I'm able to, given that some providers don't work that late. If a provider is going to be a dick about it (see what I did there?), then too bad, it's their loss of business.

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In my experience most guys who asked "What time are you gonna be available till" usually never make an appointment. Also those who asked " What's your schedule like?", do we really need to tell them our schedule?.

Well, yeah. If your schedule isn't posted in your ad and website, why shouldn't I be able to ask?  

What if I wanted to see you at midnight? Am I supposed to just assume you'll be available? Not all escorts work that late. In fact, most don't but some do.

If you want to see us Midnight then you can just say it, or you can just say any specific time rather then asking our schedule, then we can tell you whether we are available or not. When someone asked me, "what's my schedule" I usually answer with, "well, I have laundry, going to groceries, responding to an email, answering the phone, etc"

IF they put a price in the ad then I agree that negotiations are superfluous. But if they do not put a price in the ad or they only put an hour rate in the ad, then I'm going to ask what their rate is or ask if they have a 30 min rate. I usually prefer a 30 min visit because of time and monetary constraints. I'm not trying to negotiate, I'm asking for clarification. If most gals wrote better ads then "negotiations" would usually not be necessary.  

Just my 0.02.

ry but there isn't anything wrong with "negotiations"  in my book.  
 if ap rovider post 180 roses and i happen to have just 150 roses available at the spurn of the moment
 a number of them think that is close enough to see a client.  So what's wrong with negotiations ?  
 That's not low-balling, IMO,  its just honesty and the eagerness to see that provider at the time.  
it's not like i'm creating a brand new price for a ridiculous 50 roses bucks vs 160 roses. that's hen providers should know by hard that a low-baller is trying to take adavatage.  

 i will automatically tell a provider that i scrap together whatever i can muster just to have aany chance of being with her . if thatt's not acceptable then i'll pass and hopefully meet her price again at another time.

I have my general schedule up when my Eros ad is up, and what P411 allows ( their ads are all streamlined) but if a lady has her email address listed. I'd just shoot an email.  
 But your question is legit...unfortunately 9 out of 10 sneak always can't...plus i can't screen them.

wow... sounds like you were irritated just in expressing this point, love.  

so... I will offer this...an open ended question like: "what's your schedule?" may, or may not be, perceived as rude or improper - just depends on the girl and her individual ways of doing things...  

for me personally, I would prefer if someone is able to say: "what is your schedule like today",  "what is your schedule like this afternoon,  or this evening,  or late tonight, or tomorrow"... etc... for me, I will gladly be open anytime of the day or night, as long as I have enough heads up to clear my schedule and/or at least be properly available...  

 
- then, I have some clearer sense going into it,  can immediately weigh that against the rest of my schedule that moment, day, evening, or next day, and so on... i've a *much* better idea of how to respond best... I think that the more  *non-specific*  YOU are, the more likely you will potentially raise flags or guardedness, and find *less* desirable responses...a few reasons why:

 
If someone is cold, dispassionate, only businesslike, maybe a little condescending, impatient or 100% monotone in voice or writing tone, seems to expect another rude or fake, games or other coldness,  then likely I will also have less immediate openness to connect with,  or have to work harder to make sure you know I'm not playing scheduling games,  & am possibly just as mature, and just as interested in a truly high quality of time being spent, as you are...  : -)

 
...at least a few different sides to this question... some flaky, some legit... you are making a legitimate point here... valid & pertinent... and I would never fault you for that... but that your general tone seemed a little sharp, and got some equally sharp responses back.... food for thought.....

 
So...if I get a text or email that is from anyone I don't know already, *completely non-specific*, no warmth, no greeting, no hello, for example: right out of the blue,  "where are you now?,"  "what are you doing right now?"  "when can I see you,"  "what is your schedule like",... and so forth... you could be anyone with a phone or keyboard at that moment, and am expected to just give it all up, right there on the spot ?  

 
..and don't specify anything at all  - not asking whether you wish an incall visit, or out-visit,  and that could make a great deal of difference to you as well..  Incall and outvisit gift levels are generally *always* going to be different for girls that drive, or can travel,  ...and,  Im at least 30 minutes driving from my own major metro area, & that's  *IF*  it's  *not*  rush hours,   *and*   I am just happen to be literally ready to walk right out the door (or receive company at my door) at that very moment when you called, emailed, or texted me....  

 
in my listings I at least say "advance dates are very much preferred",  & also list suggested times  NOT  to call me,  so this type of inquiry is not helpful,  especially when people actually can be cold & rude in response when i may not be available for an hour, or two or three, or maybe later that evening,  or not until the next day, and I VERY WARMLY AND POLITELY ask non-prying, non-games,  *basic* screening questions in return,  such as "if I may please warmly ask where you found me" and, "any prior experience with special women like myself",  or, did you wish for me to come to you, or did you wish to come to my place?, etc.."..... "are you able, or willing, to please ring me in person, that we may have a few minutes to chat warmly together", and so forth...  and  return with evasiveness, blow offs,  as if just playing games, another fake or flake, when in fact, that could not possibly be further from the truth in my case.

 
...as a mainstream corporate society girl, & erotic arts is not the *only* love of my life, but  ***is***  one of the great committed loves of my life... am established and mature. I have a mostly hetero/married/corporate, and GG social crowd, keep myself to only to good areas, and often ***must***  make advance dates,  so that I can do at least 3 things for the utter respect of both the seeker & myself:  

 
A). screen well to protect both you and myself, and with at least a few minutes of mature, sensible, hopefully genuinely warm,  down-to-earth, and in-person dialogue, including covering all possible best schedule needs for both of us,  and *your* best times should clearly come first, if that is at all possible for me to accommodate...    

 
B). try to only ever be at my very best as possible, 'specially if it's the first time we've ever met. (if I'm in the middle of a 60, 80, or 90 hour week between other business interests, self care & training (pool & gym), family or friends' interests, AND my erotic/companionship arts),  ...then out of total respect to *both* of us,  I only want to make a best first impression if I can... it then behooves me to try to work my schedule with you in advance, so that your expectations **are** met *and*  hopefully exceeded... Yes ?   : )      

 
and C). Clear my schedule for at least a couple of hours, especially if we connect well, your not in a rush (I *do* know it has to be that way for you too, sometimes) and have a really nice time,  and be SURE its not just predicated on clockwatching,  & that you never have the feeling of just being another  "revolving door",  no genuine fun or real substance kind of connection, that unfortunately many are used to dealing with.  

 
I know for certain that if you send me a cold or completely non-specific email or text, share no additional information, include no greeting or warmth or hello, or how/where you found me, then I will honestly wish and NEED to cover all of that with you -  and **NOT** as a matter of games, complications, rocket science, nonsense, and definitely NOT prying into your affairs or other BS of any kind... it's simply because I need to know that you are:  

 
A.) making a sincere inquiry and can do so ideally in a kind, or at very least warmly gentlemanly manner, and have no issues with good etiquette of being at least a little open in return, & making nice dates as much ahead of time, if possible...

   
B.) not just fishing, harassing, or getting your jollies from making a fake booking or worse, and  

 
C.) have some basically warm, or at least down-to-earth idea of your basic context - such as:  

 have you ever been with a real TS woman before, & if so, good, bad, terrible, exceptional ?  
...expectations you hope to find, things you may wish to explore, any idea of your likes, preferences, or dislikes, any questions you would like to ask of me ?  and I ALWAYS do so in the most warm, utterly polite, forthright, SUCCINT, and fun manner, as to never be rude or perceived as just another game player or ripoff artist.

 
All of that said.... ***be as specific as possible***....  the less specific you are as a seeker,  in making a scheduling inquiry,  the more likely I think you are to meet resistance,  potentially raise flags of caution,  or have difficulty in finding someone that can plan ahead to accommodate with you.  

 
I cant count the number of times I've spoken with first time seekers,  even some experienced people that saw my ** "advance dates very much preferred" ** and early mornings *must* be arranged the day or evening prior" ....1, 3, 5, or 6am, and act surprised that they cannot find, right that moment  (I DO understand, guys... it IS what you want, right then, but...) a hopefully high-quality, non fake, non-ripoff TS companion, with no notice, no idea of distance or location, or prior screening, at those hours and circumstances...  

 
I mean, we all have to think with both heads a little more, at least sometimes...  (I say that lovingly and somewhat ummm "tongue in cheek" so to speak, but nonetheless).....  

 
Most kindly, and..

 
Safe travels & happy seeking, always,

 

 
AngelaGirl

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