Hello Everyone,

This is my first post since joining so i do apologize if i say somdething stupid or offensive. Anyway heres my problem, Ive been very interested in TS Girls ever since i was in high school and have never had anyone to tell that to. I was a jock so that was out of the question to say anything like that. Over the years (im in my mid 20's btw) this curiosity keeps growing and growing to the point where ive made calls to some TS escorts only to chicken out when they say when do you want to meet. Im in a 4 yr relationship with a girl who i love to death and could see marrying in future but im worried that this curiosity could get the best of me if i do end up being with her the rest of my life. She doesnt know this about me but i just dont know what to do? We are not engaged or anything so i keep telling myself to do it now cause it would only be worse we were married. I couldnt live with myself if i hurt her like that. So anyone what should i do? I hope i made sense in writing this and again i apologize for anything i said wrong or offensive.

thanks

You didn't identify your location......so it's hard to make specific suggestions regarding ladies to see.....however......it's better to scratch your itch intelligently now, before you are married, than to wait until afterwards.
 
There are some extraordinary providers who would enjoy being with you, and it's important that you select carefully before taking your possible plunge.....or being plunged....whatever comes up

EReview is an excellent source to follow as most of us in the hobby have been in your shoes at some time in the past.

Good luck.

here is my exsperiance. I to had always wondered about a TS girl. I still can't believe how beautiful some of them are. I finally got up the nerve and took the plunge with a very open mind and had a great time! will I do it again not sure because I do love pussy but In my opinion these girls believe themselves to be girls and so do I.

You should definitely comprehensively explore and understand your sexuality before you make a long term commitment to a relationship..you owe it to yourself, and, it could be argued, to your partner. After all, this is what youth is for! If you post your city (or PM us) we can help you with recommendations. There are some really wonderful women out there (and they are in fact women, albeit with something 'special') who can really help. You want the best experience possible to be able to know what you need.

good luck!

Scarface, sounds like you are not ready to meet a TS if you chicken out when making a call. If you would cheat on your 4 year girlfriend with another woman, you should have no problem with a ts. TS girls are awesome, and depending on what you are into, much better then GG's. If you show up to the date with a bunch of hangups though, you will not have fun.
One more thing, unless you are really lucky, it is going to take a few dates with some different TS ASP's to find what you are looking for. Also, the TS girl you have your eye on today could be out of the business tomorrow, so if there is someone in particular you want to see, you should call while you still can.

Sound advice has been provided. Deal with your interest and desire now. You might find that there is a part of you that you don't know. This has been rolling around in your mind for a long time, and until you step up to the plate and deal with the interest, the question will linger. Entering marriage with this unanswered question only delays what will someday happen and it is best to start your marriage with the belief that you will honor your vows. Good luck and don't fret, These Ladies are in fact Ladies so do not start asking the "Am I gay" question. Sexual yes, gay, don't think so.

LATSDog's two cents......

Scarface, for what its worth, here is my input and a little bit about my experience.  My first experience was about 6ish years ago.  I too was in a long relationship.  I was dating my best friend, BUT our sexual energy died.  I knew this was not healthy because I am a horn dog.  I never saw anyone else the entire time I was with her, but after 5 years of terrible blow jobs and a lot of dry humping (funny but serious), I started getting curious.  So, do it now before you hook up for good and/or your experience tells you that its not time for that comittment.  

So, what do you need to do? First, stop calling until you are ready.  Thats the number one no no as girls get pissed due to all the jokers calling.

Second, research reviews, pick a girl who has tons of excellent reviews, no bad ones at all.  Also make sure she says first timers are ok.

Third, even if she is not in your city, if she travels, WAIT till she gets to your city or go to see her.

Fourth, let her know you are a newbie and make sure she is ok with it.  Don't get too detailed on the phone but let her know what you may want to do.

Here is the girl I chose for my first.....

http://erostranssexuals.com/dallas-files/da-cindy44.htm

I was in and out in probably 30 min for my first time, but it was very erotic.  This girl was more fem and sexy/classy than any girl I have ever touched.  She opened the door in sheer forest green lace gstring, bra, garters, etc....Her little dog tried to bit me but oh well.  

I still enjoy a beautiful women but I now have found that the majority of ts girls are more fem than most gg's only because they try harder and want to impress.  

Lastly......Drink a few glasses of wine before you go to take the edge off.  It really helps and will relax you.

And finally, report back!

Thanks for the help. I live in the NY area specificaly westchester county. As far as what i would look for in a first time would be just someone who wont yell at me if im nervous lol.

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Thanks Latsdogs's. I should have asked this forum years ago this question. I live in New York specifically westchester which is right near the city. Anyone you can recommend who is nice which is all i want. Im not picky i just dont want them to have an attitude

Re: LATSDog's two cents......

Dang!!!!

Dog.. you sure picked one of the hottest for your first...

Neither Bob or Larry could pick better.

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Thats Larry's foster ts step daughter

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DAmn.. and Larry didnt say a word to me about her...

now if I can get her in front of my cameras....  (grin)...

Re: LATSDog's two cents......

You live in Westchester....so plan to play in the city.  More private and will make you feel more secure with your anonymity.

Suggest you visit the following girls in the order suggested....and make an appointment based on their and your availability.

---TS Venus  www.venusthaigirl.com   917-279-9360
---TS Leather   917-804-9197
---TS Szilvia  www.theexoticgirlfor you.com
  520-784-8976

All are in Eros NY and all have been reviewed in ER from time to time.

All are very nice, very fem....very client sensitive, and will give you full value for your $$$.  You need to plan on one hour...and all three are winners.  

TS Leather appears as an S&M type, but that is not necessarily true, as she is a wonderful lady who will play to whatever tune you want to play, and she has amazing equipment.  Both Venus and Szilvia (who used to be Jasmine Thai) are amazing.  So go ahead.....all are based in NYC and are waiting for you !

Have fun !

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Yo don't forget you get different options with these ladies. Ask about top/bottom and pleaase go in clean !

Sorry for late reply but i just wanted to tell you how much all of this is helping me. I know for myself that i need to know if this is something thats just a fantasy or a new side of me that is undiscovered. The one thing that kills me is hurting this girl im with cause either way thats going to happen. Should i tell her about this before i even do it?