I am Looking For a Pretty, Gentle Guaranteed Top In NYC or NJ Who Will Gently Treat Me Like A Girl & Seduce Me & Make Love To Me.
I Would Like To Change Into Girl Clothes & Wear Some Make Up That I Can Bring Along & Put It On Myself At Her Place.
Thanks !

You've asked about this before, and I really think you will need to buy your own clothes, make-up, etc.  As I've written before, most providers aren't equipped for this sort of transformation.

If you can't buy, well, the dungeons may not be what you're looking for, but I'd keep searching through the BDSM route.  Some dominas can cater to this fantasy without the humiliation and domination scene.

many thanks. i have amended my Post as you will notice. I will Now bring my own clothes & make up and put it on myself and transform myself..I have exlored BDSM route But Most girls are Genetic and Don't have what I need!!

I Have Bought My Own Clothes & Went To MAC Cosmetics and Learnt To Apply Basic Make Up...So i Will transform myself....Can You Please Recommend some names of Guaranteed Fully Functional But Gentle & Loving TS with a Good Personality ....Regards, j

Not to poke a nest but you've asked this previously and i know some people have given great providers names. You've done a little research and been semi active on the board since then but have you actually called any of them?
http://www.eros-newjersey.com/files/152413.htm
I believe this was the young lady in question.

Certainly if you are going to transform yourself for your session with it in your head to save money than go for it! Because i think my question was more of are you going to see these girls to fuck or be made up to put it bluntly.

And whatever the case is whatever your situation is jas for some reason this board is very supportive of everyone likes dislikes food allergies pet tolerances and what not. But if you are nervous about being with a girl to the pt you are analyzing every variable you will never enjoy a moment of it.

It just kind of seems you are planning this out like a wedding right down to the hormonal level and gg passability which is fine its your dollar no one is making you go and this isnt me bashing you either lol.(because internet arguments are so productive right?) I just want you to think about what you want to gain in all this when you leave. Because i havent met ms melissa carter yet even if we are in nj but when i do im gonna hug and kiss her like shes my best friend. You just gotta relax dude and go with the flow

Thanks. You are Right about over analyzing...but please understand it is my Very First time....i agree with you that it should be Fun and spontaneous. I will work on that and try to relax....

...you are paying the provider for her time and if you want A-Z...from "soup to nuts"...that will cost way more than 250...as all you describe as your desired scenario will take at least 1.5 to 2+ hours...I have a few CD clients and some like to only wear a garment or two, while others want the full shebang(pardon the pun) and no matter what, a quality session should not be rushed(especially if part of that time with the provider is your transformation/prep time...she could be seeing 2+ clients in the time you might require and be inconvenienced...after all many hobbyists seem to forget that this is a business, time is money...I suggest you take Melissa's advise and focus on finding a well reviewed young lady for the rate you want and maybe just wear a pair of panties or some thigh highs for that first time...boner appetit, Rachel

thanks Melissa. u r good...
BTW who is Yolanda and do you have her link ?

thanks! I plan to take up Only an hour, no more....20 minutes of quick dressing up/ make up  and 40 min fot All else.....
BTW, the link you provided does Not seem to work from my pc

thanks to u Melissa & others, I am learning a lot about how the game is played........i am tempted to become a TS myself...Seems like a great way to make a living ! except the competition is very intense with Soo many pretty TS like you & Petite Etc ETc

Unless your attractive and or have a great head on your shoulder your in for some rough roads. I don't think being a TS is way to make a living but a lifestyle. I think you should get acquainted with some of the girls to understand whats going on.
It's not a game so I hope your Smoking Hot if your going into this and those are your real thoughts you posted.

Jasmine7, you might really be onto something here.    

Maybe you could go into the escort business and perhaps be a real trend setter.  I am assuming that you would be guided by those requirements that you expected of others, so for you......

1. Competition should not be a problem since you would not charge more then the "going rate" $250 for the most lavish request, thus reducing your rate for your "vanilla" sessions AND be open to negotiate if the client could not afford what you believe to be the correct value for the services you are performing.  You will work with your clients to price yourself within their ability to pay, because after all, you are a Gentle and Loving person;

2. Accept text messages and blocked calls,since you have NO FEAR and because your potential client might share a phone with his girl friend, and god forbid she discovers what he is up to.  You understand this, since you have first hand experience worrying about such things and know how frustrating it can be to unblock a shared phone or to deal with an escort who would not accept such calls;

3. Advertise yourself as a "Guaranteed Fully Functional, Gentle & Loving TS with a Good Personality.  However depending upon your own abilities, you may need to limit your visitors so that you could honor your guarantee and will not concern yourself about the loss of income associated therewith. I am sure, that based on your many posts, your character is such that you would cheerfully refund a portion of the donation if you were not fully functional as promised, Gentle and Loving and do so with a smile on your face because you have a Good Personality.  

In all seriousness, IMO your last comment "i am tempted to become a TS myself...Seems like a great way to make a living" speaks volumes about who you really are, your character, or lack thereof, how little you understand anything about these ladies and demonstrates a complete lack of respect for them as people.

I'm no white knight and far from perfect, but I like most of the other people here understand and respect the fact that we are interacting with individuals and NOT some inanimate objects.
Individuals who, in most cases conduct themselves as Providers of Professional & Personal Services.

Equally if not more important is that most of us understand and respect the fact that while these special females made a conscious decision to take the difficult and often lonely path to womanhood that they have, their decision was driven by something inside themselves that left them with few, if any alternative choices if they were going to grow up and have a chance to be happy and fulfilled individuals.  

I have to believe that very few, if any of these ladies were simply, as you so eloquently stated
"Tempted to become a TS because it seems like a great way to make a living."

Jasmine7, there really is no questions as to your character.





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Hi Jasmin, I just can't help myself and want to respond to your comment. I really hope that you are joking about ."...i am tempted to become a TS myself...Seems like a great way to make a living ! except the competition is very intense with Soo many pretty TS like you & Petite Etc ETc".
To me that sound like you making fun, do you know how hard it is to be a transexual and you have to deal with everyday life, and How can you become a TS if you are still in the closet, your just a joke, and I notice you called me several time from restricted number, what is that? also you emailed me many time, I refuse nicely, yet you still called me, the reason why I do not want to meet you because your sound very demanding, and how can I get hard if you are going to turn me off with all those action you have, hope you rethink before you make any comment.
My advice to you, stay as who you are and be true to yourself, also it is very important to research about transgender on wikipedia. Take time to study before you jump into conclusion or make any comment, I am sure you know the internet very well.

Peace!!

thanks Michelle for helping clarify....