Re:Inbetween

The men who have sex with t-girls fall to their knees while giving head! Sorry - I could not resist!

I couldn't help but LOL at pluver's great response.  Kudos.

For Javiinthe03 most T-girls as you refer to them in your post consider themselves transsexuals, but most of them are really just transgendered.  They like the idea of being perceived as female/women (social street appearance) but also like the equipment they were genetically born with between their legs.  Most, not all, never consider SRS.

For you:  Sexual gender preference for the sexual partner (object of your desire) is one thing;  sexual self idenity (straight, bi, or gay/lesbian) is another thing; and sexual behavior (acts) is a third.  If you give a TG-Girl a BJ you are engaging in a defined homosexual act, etc., etc.

So if you need a name for yourself and your guilt and worry pick one, many or none. The real problem here is cultural norms and fulfilled expectation of status and idenity.  That's why all you married and/or guys with significant g/f's worry so much about this.  Having to keep it all a secret.  What torture.  If we all just came out, both men, women and third-sex and were honest, what a crazy world we would have.  No Jerry Falwell or Pat Buchannan.  Probably no porno industry either.  Now wouldn't that be a bore.