So after many months of lurking on various TS websites, I've finally decided to take the plunge and post here looking for serious advice and give it a shot.

So, a bit of info about me:
-I'm a first timer not only to trans women, but to the hobby as a whole.
-I'm former military, so I'm used to having all the details up front and explained as simply as possible (not that I needed it... promise
-With this last statement in mind, I'm also good at following directions.
-I'm normally quite shy and reserved, and going into something like this will only make things worse
-I'm hoping to find a patient and understanding top trans who enjoys working with first timers like me

After looking at various reviews and providers, I'm looking at either contacting TS Andrea Amor or TS Isabella, but I'm having trouble deciding, hence my reason for posting here. Or if anyone has another suggestion or random bit of advice, I'm all ears.

I have not seen Ms. Amor in a long time, but recall her as a fun date. I didn't bottom for her, so can't comment on that particular aspect, but think she is a good choice. I have not met Isabella, but have heard great things about her, and likewise think she would also be a good choice. Since you are going into this as a first time bottom, as long as you let the lady of your choice know what you are after, think you should be ok. Usually, it is when the first time client is going into this with the expectation of being the top that you sometimes run into problems, imo.

Good luck.

Darlin, the provider  you choose just make sure she knows this  will be your first time.
I always make sure my boys are as comfortable as can be, I  do what I can to instill
A sense of faith in my boys. In the meantime it wouldn't hurt you to start playing
With a few REASONABLY sized toys,just to get you used to the idea of bottoming.
Good luck darlin, have fun and play safe.

Www.toptgirl.com

Thanks for the advice. I've already been using some toys for a bit for just this reason. Now I'm ready for the real deal.

Love it!!!!

I guess a lot of people still don't do this?  Hopefully most still brush their teeth.

Daisy from Austin once posted a great reference for seeing a provider.  I looked but couldn't find it.  I think that should be bumped at least once a month.

Fun in Texas 0524

I hope you didn't spend much on your toys - once you experience "the real deal" you'll never have much need for them.

Lived in Phoenix in 2009 and 2010, sessioned with both of them, Andrea is a little more expensive, lives in a better area, and is more of a natural top. Isabella is bigger 5' 11" 165lbs, Andrea is about 5' 5" 135lbs.
Both are absolutely gorgeous, but one thing the pictures you see of Andrea are slightly off in person she is about 2 shades darker. Isabella is just about the sweetest person you will ever meet, and if you decide on her she will do what you like but you can tell she is just not naturally the dominant type, she looks exactly like her pics though. Isabella schedule is more flexible, if I remember correctly Andrea has school
to deal with. If I were you I would probably try Isabella first because she would probably be better at easing you into a session, then next month try Andrea, if you want to PM me feel free.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewall.asp?BoardID=19&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=Primer%20for%20First%20Timers&SearchType=1&DayFrom=9999&DayTo=0&MessageID=64124&frmSearch=1#64124

Took me a while, as I'm on my phone and the search feature here isn't all that great. Hopefully I copied the right link.

And yes, this should be reposted/stickied for newbies like me.