Ok so I am a post op and can't decide if I want to be open or not so I thought that I would see if there were anyone else like me around.

set the search to "All Cities" and search for Post-Op. I saw 13 advertising in various cities. if you search for "Post", more show up, but not all are Post-Op.

Hi Chelsea:
I'm not post-op yet (next winter as it looks... take note gentlemen...) but I live "out" as a TS and I intend to remain "out" after surgery.

I am assuming my clientelle will change somewhat but I will still be the same person.  I'll still act and look the same, and treat my friends the same.

I think society tends to accept post-ops more readily than pre-op as the body fits the presentation and people seem to have x-ray vision when it comes to TS's, and they focus on the one body part they can't see.

But other than that and not having to hassel so much with the government repression and bigotry against TS's I don't anticipate much difference.

But I "am" a TS and I always will be. I'm comfortable with who and what I am and proud of myself.  I live totally mainstream in the straight community and have found complete acceptance.  I see no reason for that to change.

I don't advertise that I'm TS in my dailiy life as a woman, and there are many people who don't know or aren't sure.  But if I interact with someone regularly I disclose.

My partner on the other hand doesn't see any reason to say anything unless someone asks.  I think many young TS's feel similar. My assumption at the moment is she will probably go stealth after surgery.

There are some post op girls working, I used to have some e-mails.  PM me and I'll try to find them. I know some post-op girls advertise as GG's, others as TS.

And there's nobody else quite like you honey!  Be glad!

Hugs,
TS Jamie