I always leave money and excuse myself to the bathroom. That way you can count it and make sure the right amount is there. Also, it allows me to wash my hands. At the end of the day this is your business and you need to make sure you are getting paid your rate. Seems silly a guy would get offended.
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to me it depends most of the time i give trust but once i feel like its needed i do it...they have the right to go down on you so u have the right to count LOL
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lol you are right but I don't trust anyone any more, about a year ago a guy left me an envelope with a bunch of napkins inside, and just about 2 months ago a regular client that come to visit me avery time I visit BWI shorted me a $100 he just put some $20s and in the middle all $1 dollar bills to make me think it was all there, but guess what? now when I go there he wants to see me bad he beg me and that is not gonna happen just because he played me like that after I trusted him and was always super nice to him. Guys please don't do this to nice girls, today is hard to find a real and nice TS girl and if you screw up doing this you won't have a second chance
I'm not offended at all if a girl counts the money. I realize some people have hang ups about this, but at the end of the day...this is a business transaction. McDonalds would never give you your McNuggets without counting the money first! Count away girls!
I really don't like counting money in front of the client, but when I do, I do it only with "suspicious" guy and then you had to have little argument about it which affected the session a bit awkward!
Especially when I trusted the guy or my regular, shorted $50, $100 after they left. I never tell them, I just thought maybe they forgot or did it in purpose, but when they wanted to see me again, thats how i told them, mostly they don't know, yet they didn't want to replace those missing dollars lol. I usually lost my trust in them and just never pick up their phone mainly because I tried to avoid some drama and let it go by not seeing them again.
I had a guy placed the donation on the TV stand, and when we done, we had conversation and he knew i didn't pay attention, so he replaced those donation with $15, that was few years ago.
Avoid guy who refused to put donation instead saying "Don't worry about it, I have it" meaning ( you have to worry cos this guy is going to be tricky ) and most of the time I was right
I wouldn't have a problem if you counted it in front of me, your not in this business or taking the risks to get short changed by some low life creep!
GUYS.... please do not use envelopes. I really think its rude to count it in front of them. that is just me. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. but if you come and give me a sealed envelope.... I am sorry but that's a big reg flag and i will have to make sure. SAY NO TO ENVELOPES 
kisses XOXO. Aleksa
I was once left with an envelope he filled it in with another envelope (to make it seem full) and puts gift cards with NO VALUE what-so- ever. I reported him. I always check and count now after this experience, no matter how trust worthy he seems or repeated client i always count it. I usually now after they get naked i send them to go wash their hands while i count the donation, if you have to do it in front of them count those bills with sexiness ....
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I prefer that things start with trust. I can totally understand your feelings after being burned like that and no longer feeling you can give the benefit of the doubt. It's unfortunate that cheap guys ruin it for those of us who understand and appreciate the arrangement that is made. I don't mind a provider counting the donation but I'd prefer it not be done in front of me, you know to help maintain that illusion that it's not just a transaction. I usually put the donation in the bathroom making it very clear without saying anything of course that I've put it there...that gives her the opportunity to check discretely. I've also got solid references with well reviewed ladies and a solid track record so that helps. Always seems to be a few that ruin things for the many.
I never have exact change. My favorite provider charges $293 a session. I give her $300 through a slot underneath a bulletproof glass window. She counts it, puts the three hundy in her register, gives me the $7 dollars in change back (awwwww, shucks, and she usually gets it back since I'm known as a big tipper), then buzzes me back through the metal door and the fun begins. I get a receipt when I leave and the session has been completed. Never even thought twice about it, much less three times.....
Trust does cum hand and hand, if the provider is it able to trust you to go to the hotel or house then that's the first trust now if she feels the need to count,our clients or lovers who cum see us shouldn't be offended..
I actually believe the opposite, that trust is earned. You could look like you should be on the cover of GQ, but until the provider gets to know them and feel that level of trust and whatnot, count it up. Like you said they've gotten burned so it's only going to make it harder for them to trust others. Totally understandable.
I think it's good to count but try to be smooth enough not to do it in front of his face.
A favorite provider of mine I take my donation and put it under a bottle of lotion or a glass. I don't know when she takes the donation away but the next time I look it's always gone and filed away. She is good about not counting in front of me and I am good about having the donation ready when I walk in the door. It's become so seamless it doesn't feel like paying for sex anymore even though I do.
I always keep my donation separate from my wallet. Because of this intrinsic paranoia of high heel/frying pan combo attacks I don't anything on me usually except the lil bit in my pocket.
Twice i've shorted girls this way and both with girls I see frequently.... Once she counted after and said you are however much short I don't even remember and i realized I still had money in my pocket. The second I was on the road and she asked how much I paid because she thought she lost 20 in her room. Also in my pocket. No hard feelings thats why you second check and they second check.
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If it's to be counted it should be done very discreetly. I have seen some very high quality ladies recently who have not counted. They got the exact amount and their trust made me happy, but I would not have been offended if they had counted.
I always leave money and excuse myself to the bathroom. That way you can count it and make sure the right amount is there. Also, it allows me to wash my hands. At the end of the day this is your business and you need to make sure you are getting paid your rate. Seems silly a guy would get offended.
When I session as soon as I enter an incall and greet my provider I lay down an unsealed envelope containing my donation in plain sight for them. Then I ask to use their restroom and politely excuse myself. After I take a few minutes freshening up I walk out and "poof" like magic the envelope has disappeared and the girl is waiting for me smiling. This really shouldn't be too hard to figure out.
Under normal circumstances I would be offended but I would understand if the provider didn't know me. One provider asked me for the donation at the end of the session with an attitude, not realizing I laid the donation in her designated area upon my arrival. But not everyone is me! With the volume and wide variety of clients you are exposed to, it is understandable that a provider would do that.
Maybe its not rude but it make me feel like a cheap whore,not a cortesan.
So I learn to feel how much the guys give me by feeling the money with my hands, place a 5 bills of 20 dollars and fell it, then place 5 more and feel it then ad 5 more 20's and so on do it over and over and you will learn if the guy gave you the right amounth, what if they trick you with smaller bills? very discrette move the bills with your fingers and check if they are all 20's or 100.
Or simply "drop" the money by accident and pick it up making sure it;s the rigth amount.
Only with my regulars I never check the money because I trust them.
but with new ones I do makie sure my donation is rigth.
One Time, a guy insert neatly cut pieces of new paper under 2 20's and he wont let me get close to the money prettending to kiss me with so much passion, But I stop him and grab the money only to realize it was all fake. so I ask him to leave rigth a way,
at another time I got lil piece of hand cut papers inside an envelope in Charlote NC. that is why I never come back there.
India Fox.
Count it, so you know up front I am no 60 minute man and expect the time and attention equal to the donation. It might be a bit more classy to do it out of sight, such as leaving it in the rest room for evaluation. Of course, that's just my view...