Transsexual
first timer question PLEASE HELP
One thing you see in ads is that ladies will say don't call me unless you are ready to meet me. The good ones take their profession seriously, and might reasonably think you are pulling their leg when you show up and say, I really like your face? I have not used that particular line, but have been met with some pretty incredulous looks when I said things like, I am in LA just to meet you.
Which has been true, by the way, every trip.
touching or no touching it's the same to me as long as your happy 
, the provider should be able to make clients feel comfortable in anyway or vice versa.
Hey All,
I am thinking of seeing a provider, but I have never really thought it through completely.
The first thing you need to do is think this through completely. So many TS providers have a call me when you are ready to come over policy. It has been my experience that these providers do this in part because so many guys flake out and never show up. As a result, they get burned if they set appointments in advance.I am thinking of seeing a provider, but I have never really thought it through completely.
This hobby is a two way street. We want to be treated royally and shown the best possible time for our money and the ladies want to be treated respectfully at all times. Done right, everyone has a good time and both parties walk away with what we wanted from the encounter.
So before you go asking if it is OK to not touching her all over, consider whether or not you will actually go through with it. If the answer is yes, then many providers will be just fine with this being all about you, as long as you are a gentleman in the process.
If and when you correspond with the provider, let her know this is a first time experience for you and you are nervous. Let her know you are not sure exactly how far you want to go, but that you will respect her time, show up clean and pay for her time whether or not you decide to go all the way.