Lately, we've been reading some of the ladies' expectations of us.  I thought it was rather interesting and I can respect a lot of what's being said, including how some of us men have unrealistic expectations.

Now it's time to turn the tables and give some of my (our) thoughts and expectations.  Feel free to join in and discuss.

OK some of the obvious ones:

- I make sure that I'm freshly showered and groomed.   Naturally, I expect the same from you.  Thankfully 99% of the ladies are.  But that 1 fucking %!  God DAMN.

-  Would you PLEASE be so kind as to keep the room neat?  When I walk into a room and I see it's unkempt, clothes and bottles all over, I immediately think "slob".  Not that I'm Mr Neatness, but I expect more from ladies, and yes, it can ruin the experience.

- Make the damn bed!  I know I'm not your boyfriend and I know other men are visiting, but at least have the decency to freshen and make the bed up and give the illusion that I'm the only one sweating and cumming on those sheets.  And I want to feel that NOBODY was there before I arrived.  Thank you.

- Wear something inviting and sexy.  Silky, satiny lingerie always works.  Stockings too.  If I want a woman with cotton panties, cotton sports bra and white socks, I'll go to the gym.  Better yet, I love when a woman is dressed in professional business attire or something tasteful, and wears sexy undies underneath.  It might take a little more time and effort, but you'll leave a lasting impression.

Let's here some more from both sides.  More to come.

...also if I don't know a client ( or doing incalls out of town) I always am dressed when i come to the door ( but of course have nice lingerie underneath)

Yes, Allison, believe it or not, some girls don't see the problem in that.  And I'm talking about supposed high end ones too (though I won't mention names  .

And good to know you dress to please yourself and obviously the man.  Yet another reason why I have to see you!

Yeah, that's right.  Not everyone dribbles a small load like you probably do.  Some of us shoot and sometimes we miss, and yes, sometimes a nice big load happens to fall onto the sheets.  But obviously you wouldn't know that and mistaken it for "being rude."

...very fitting name when you see what damage some guys can do to the hotel sheets...OMG...how do you explain THAT to the maid? or how do you see the next booked gent when the sheets are ruined by the thoughtless lunk head who didn't scrub his bum or even attempted to douche for anal play or sex? no thanks...a thorough wipe down with antibacterial soap/wipes and I am ready for the lover. Also great for Nuru Massage or warm oil body sliding...mmm...dfk, Rachel

Thanks for the opportunity, please do not take personally or get offended, this is just reminder, it might help you get better understanding, some people are different, and here is mine.

For an incall I always make sure that I dress as sexy as possible and the bed sheet is neat and clean, no hair or pubes left and i do not want my bed look like 100 people had been on it...LOL

For outcall, I always dress conservative like wearing jeans or street clothing so no one would stare at me when I enter the hotel and look suspicious and wear nice panty and bra underneat it, I will bring several request item with me as well.

Here are the list what I think it's important and need to be paid attention:

-  I expect my client to be clean, good hygiene, respectful, and polite, just like when you are going on to a first date! Fresh breath, don't have too much hair gell in case I need to scratch your scalp. If you are smoker, please ask for listerine or gum and wash your hand, so my body and my nipples wont smell cigarrettes after you licked it .

- For a kissing if you are GFE, i recommend you not to breath heavily while kissing and blow it in my mouth, cos it making me suffocated and it may cause unconsciousness...LOL

-  Do NOT bring up or talk about your previous date, for example " oh she was so good, she F$#@% me so hard, shes the best blah..blah...", I'm glad that you had a good time with your previous date, but talking about your "EX GF" is a NO NO on your date, you can tell the story after the session ended, not only it will give me a pressure but it's also disrespectful, because I'm here to impress you and ready to have fun with you, yet you ignore me and talk about other girl. I did discuss this with a few gents, and they actually liked it when i reminded them to behave!

- You are wellcome to take a shower at my hotel, but remember the hotel only provide 2-3 bath towels, so please just use 1 not 2 or 3 for each shower, some of you took a shower twice and used 2 new towels...LOL

- If you planning to be a bottom, please make sure that inside thing is clean, sometimes i need to change a rubber as soon as i smell your behind and i kinda getting used to it..SMH! I also like when you know what you want, top or bottom both are fun, although bottoming is a lot more fun...hehe

- I'm happy that most of the guys I met are good looking and in a good shape no matter their age, and when I gave a compliments to someone I really meant it, but please do not take it the wrong way, by complimenting you it doesnt mean you don't have to bring donation on your next visit. My experience when i used to work from home, I met few hot guys and i gave them lots of compliments, but then on their next visit, they reduce the donation up to $50 each time, I did not complaint hoping he would be better next time, but it getting worst, that is why i stop seeing those clients not because of the money, but the attitude toward me making me want to avoid them and just ignore their calls.

- I'm not a marriage counselling, but I do like to listen to your story, it making me feel like your best friend so don't feel bad about it, just make sure it doesnt take too much of my time as I have to clean up and be ready for the next client if any..LOL.

- As a transgender, I am happy and i'm gratefull to be who I'm, will embrace any imperfection I have, because to me the imperfection and vulnerability are what make someone attractive. I don't like to be reminded about my past, I know some of you would like to get to know me more, but please do not ask " how long have you been a tgirl" or " when did you realise you are a girl" those questions are sometimes remind me of my bad childhood life, so I always avoid to answer. I just want to look forward to my future not my past.

I know for some people, what I do is wrong, but I love meeting new people ( until I'm taken), travelling and I love sex , I do not care what people say, they do not feed me anyway, and I'm pretty much secure about who I am.

I hope this is not too much information just I'm trying to be professional...

I guess that's all from me for now, please do not get offended with what I wrote, this is only a reminder and awareness, I do not have intention to put somebody down, Im very open minded, laid back and down to earth, maybe somehow this post would cost me some bussiness...but I'm happy to share my view. Don't hesitate to tell me anything I might need to know

xoxoxox

Gee

It seems that for everyone it's basic respect and politeness that is desired. It doesn't seem like that should be too hard. I always treat my sessions like dates and I want to be at my best. I think if you make a good impression you are going to have a much better time. I know it's business for the provider but they are human and positive chemistry still happens and all woman love a respectful gentleman and if you can also make her laugh you are in...so my goal is to make it the best experience it can be and if we both enjoy it's a bonus.

Hygiene people. Cigarette or bad breath is a deal breaker for me and I'll leave. I generally like to shower with my partner beforehand as I'm a hygiene freak...I know it makes me more comfortable and in my experience makes my partner more comfortable knowing we are both squeaky clean...its also fun to make out and play in the hot water. And Gee, that comment about your last date goes both ways...I had a girl say oh your so handsome my last client was ugly and sweated all over me...yuck, did she think I really wanted to hear that? Stay in the moment!

This was a good thread that I hope makes people think. Common respect and politeness go a long way folks. As a hobbyist that will get you the best experience and for the providers it will get you more repeats and better reviews...win-win.

Thanks for sharing Gee, now I know to be clean and fresh for you, act a gentleman, not to make you pass out while kissing, not to talk about that chick that rocked my world last time, use one towel, make sure that inside thing is cleaned for being bottomed, don't think my good looks are a free pass, don't use our time as a counseling session, don't ask life story. And most important you love sex!!! I now know everything I need to know for our dream date hahaha. And don't worry I don't see how anyone could be offended by what you wrote...you seem to be a genuinely sweet person.

Gee, that was wonderful and honest.  Thank you for sharing.

Sometimes men (and providers) take things for granted without considering the other party.  It's good to stay on our toes, and most of it is just common sense and common courtesy.  Unfortunately, some people don't have a clue or need to be reminded.  Then there are subtleties that you point out, that we should keep in the back of our minds.  It makes for a better experience when both parties don't have any negative thoughts.

We should be grateful that there are providers as attentive as you.

Well put! Your points apply in all of Life ... even when visiting McDonald's!

I'd never heard of Nasty Pig before. Great name and idea!

Their tag line could be, "We put the 'oink' in 'boink'!"

I had to google to respond to this, I didn't know what fastidious was...LOL
Since I meet lots of people, I now realize that good look is not that important anymore, although it's help sometimes, but manner and pay attention to details is more important to me. If you care about the small things, you should not worry about the big things, thats my opinion. And why I seem to talk a lot about RESPECT, because once you have respect, all the good things will follow. And i always use my common sense for everything..