Many escorts these days not only have just a phone number to reach them, but a website as well as e-mail. Truthfully, I feel like a loser e-mailing a girl asking when they will visit my city, though I have done it, many times. My question is not so much why a provider wont either write back or call back in response to a voicemail, but how persistent do you guys get in terms of trying to contact a girl? For several girls, I have sent a respectful e-mail a few days before telling that I am a big fan and how I cant wait to meet, and then I will follow up with a call the day of arrival in which if there is no answer I will leave a message -though I never hear back. Is it possible that these girls are flooded with e-mails and messages? And if thats the case, is my question simply answered by how I should just keep trying till they pick up the phone? I mean I have no shame that I visit girls, but I am embarrassed to keep bugging an escort and I feel like a total loser.