I had used e-mail to contact a visiting t-girl provider who has advertised on EROS as well as CL while she was/is visiting the Fairfield/New Haven County area. Although there are zero TER reviews on this girl, I had seen her ad on EROS previously, and since there are rearely, if ever, any TER reviewed T-girls visiting the Fairfield/New Haven County area, I thought perhaps I would take a chance knowing that perhaps ... IWTOFTT. I requested a relaxed 3 hour evening of shared intimacy with the provider. She responded with an ridiculously high rate stating that she thought I was being silly asking for so much time and that she was not here to entertain anyone for that amount of time as it would be tedious and demand a lot of tolerance. I responded to her that perhaps her quoted figure was a typo and stated that I did not consider the relationship shared between a provider and a client as entertainment but that I felt a provider, as a service, shared affectionate intimacy with a client with as much mutual enjoyment of the experience as possible. I did mention that I could understand how she may feel that she is providng entertainment and she had every right to feel as she did. She answered back saying that she did indeed inflate the rate and provided a revised rate which was a bit on the lofty side but evidently she can obtain such a rate. She also said that she did indeed feel she provided entertainment and that basically she found the task to be boring. I believe that the e-mail exchange was good for me as I did not have to be disappointed both physically and economically. I am a bit confused by this situation as I have indeed shared extended meetings with wonderful t-girls who seemed as pleased by the experience as I had been. The questions I have are ... am I being silly for desiring to share a relaxed, unrushed extended time period of shared intimacy with a provider? ... do most providers really feel that they are entertaining their client ... and are they truly bored by the experience?