I'm curious if anyone has had a certain desire for something- could be rough sex or a really thick big pole, and then when reality hit they realized they were in much deeper waters than they expected.  Perhaps you were already in the depths of passion and you realized that you were in too much pain or just not ready for what was happening at that moment.  How did you handle it?  I would also love to hear from the ladies to know how you deal with that this situation.  Thanks for any responses.

Are you talking about that you realized what you were trying to do was something you werent ready for or is it something that you charged it and went through with it...only to be sore the next day?

I'm not talking about a popsicle!   I have the kind of experience that I referred to but I was more interested in others comments on the subject.

I'm sure most everyone here would agree that if it hurts too much, you're not doing it right.
Any provider will want you to come back and if you aren't having fun, it's not likely you'll come back.
If you're hurting her, she will DEFINITELY tell you.
Mutual respect and communication with your partner