Fair points—I agree. I think the decline in session quality within U.S. markets, the increase in fake/photoshopped profiles, and price increases have all contributed to some of the negativity and frustration you see in certain posts. It feels like the pool of providers who offer great, unrushed service at reasonable rates (not cheap) —is getting smaller and smaller, in my opinion. Also, as clients we definitely need to be more practical with our expectations, can't expect a pornstar experience with every Tgirl we meet it's just not realistic.  

 
That said, I still think the site is very informative overall. Ever since I joined in 2024, it's helped me weed out the bad providers and find the good ones. Appreciate everyone that spreads good informative info.

A lot of the negative back and forth seems to be fueled by one particular individual. In the UK they'd be called a "wind up merchant"

As to the vague questions or posts looking for info when the OP of a thread could well do their own research, I just skip over and ignore. Easily done.

i just posted yesterday asking about info on a specific girl. i DID do research, searched everywhere including reviews on this site, but came up with nothing. she happens to be real, so i asked the community if they have any intel. what the heck is wrong with that??

i agree about the bickering and negativity, but there's nothing wrong with asking about a provider when sleuthing has already been attempted.

what, by the way, makes you the arbiter of all things appropriate on these boards?

Thanks for the feedback, perhaps there's a similar viewpoint by more than just myself. I think I can guess who the "wind up merchant" may be lol. What I find most interesting; those who seem to have taken things personally. Although nothing was directed at anyone specific, posts asking for info on a provider and added a link, weren't the ones I was referring to. I even mentioned that in all caps and joked about it being my rant.  
         If you felt singled out, I apologize. I would ask you consider your comment modeled the petty bickering and negativity I was referring to. I don't know if you realize your post wasn't even public yet when I made mine, so, how could it have been about yours? Perhaps you under read and overreacted and that's fine no harm no foul.  
          If I write a longer posts, it doesn't mean I think of myself as any kind of moderator, only that I'm not capable of a more pinpointed topic. I'm just another monger in this crazy hobby. Don't forget to be careful out there and have fun.