Recently, I had an opportunity to see one of the most beautiful t-girls. I rarely take the plunge but couldn't pass this one up. There was no kissing, and I've read her reviews here and she normally covers up but didn't for oral. After about 10mins of this, went to covered anal, slowly but eventually got it in to me. Asked to get on top so as to see her gorgeous face. Funny, she changed condoms for this. I asked if the first one broke but she said no. Anyhows, she finished me off my hand, session over. She never came or got close that I could tell. Also, she's on hormones so her nuts were very shrunken. Four days later I got a terrible cold/upper respiratory infecton. Looked up new HIV infections and it say "frequently appears as cold or flu symptoms". Shit, now I am scared as hell. Can anyone offer any advice, other than waiting 3 months for a test?

It takes HIV symptoms time to manifest, most likely far in excess of four days.  Maybe you caught a cold from her, but not likely HIV.

Your best bet is to tell your doctor what happened. Don't be embarrassed. Also, have you been around anyone who has a cold or just had the flu. You might have caught the flu bug from them.
If you live in the Southern Ca. area you can go to where the adult industry goes to get checked. It is called Aim Healthcare. I think you have to wait for about 10 days after you had sex to get an accurate test but I may be wrong.

http://www.aim-med.org/

The following information is a cut and paste from  the HIV/AIDS overview page from "ASHA" American Social Health Association. The below link is more thorough.

How Do People Get Infected with HIV?
HIV is transmitted, or passed, from an infected person through blood, seminal fluid (pre-cum), semen (cum) and vaginal fluids. When someone else's body fluids get inside your body, like having unprotected sex, sharing injecting drug needles and being exposed accidentally to blood or body fluids (like in a hospital work environment), that is the way people become infected with HIV. Also, an HIV-infected mother can pass along the infection to her baby through pregnancy, childbirth or through breast-feeding.

How Risky Is It?
Unprotected sex, or penetrative sex without a latex condom, is the main way a person gets HIV from another person. The sex can be vaginal, anal or oral. Using latex condoms helps keep your partner's blood, seminal fluid (pre-cum), semen (cum) or vaginal fluids--which are the main body fluids that contain HIV--from getting inside your body.

Even with oral sex, there should be some type of plastic or latex cover or barrier between you and your partner to keep you from his or her body fluids. Some people worry about getting HIV through kissing. Dry kissing, or just kissing on the lips with your mouth closed, is not risky. Open mouth kissing (wet kissing or French kissing) is not very risky. In fact, the only way it would be possible to get HIV is if you come into contact with blood if the person you're kissing has sores in her or his mouth or has bleeding gums. There are no documented cases of anyone getting infected with HIV through French kissing.

How Is HIV NOT Transmitted?
HIV is not transmitted or passed through insect or mosquito bites, or pets. The H in HIV stands for "human," and this virus is passed through an infected human's body fluids--blood, seminal fluid (pre-cum), semen (cum), breast milk or vaginal fluids--to another human. HIV is not passed through sharing food or drinking after someone that's infected. You can hug, kiss and touch someone with HIV and not worry about getting infected. You can swim in public swimming pools and not be concerned about being accidentally infected, or use a public bathroom or telephone, or share a towel with someone. Those are not ways HIV is transmitted. HIV is a fragile virus that does not live long outside the body. HIV is not spread through the air or food.

Using latex condoms every time you have sex also reduces the risk of getting other STDs besides HIV. This is important because STD infection sometimes causes irritation of the skin, and breaks or sores may make it easier for HIV to enter the body during sexual contact. Using latex condoms helps prevent your partner's body fluids from getting inside your body, and that reduces your risk. Limit the number of sex partners you have since your risk of getting infected goes up with a greater number of partners. Remember to use latex condoms to help reduce your risk of getting an STD or HIV. If you've been having unprotected sex, think about getting tested for all STDs and HIV. Start using latex condoms the right way every time you have sex to help reduce the risk of getting an STD or HIV.

Need more information? Find out where to go in your area and learn more about STDs by calling the CDC National STD and AIDS Hotlines at 1-800-342-2437 or 1-800-227-8922. The hotlines are open 24 hours a day, seven days a week. For information in Spanish call 1-800-344-7432, 8:00 AM to 2:00 AM Eastern Time, seven days a week. For the Deaf and Hard-of-Hearing call 1-800-243-7889, 10:00 AM to 10:00 PM Eastern Time, Monday through Friday.



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I suspect given the scenario you mentioned that you now have AIDS. Hope it was fun and worth the death sentence. If you are married, hope you break down and tell your wife before you infect her too

I'm not even clear what any of us would have done differently in that session.  

But that's not the point.  This guy is already scared shit. If he has a brain he will take the faster AIM test recommended above.  He will find out the truth.  What is the point of your angry statement that will only scare this guy more than he needs to be scared?

BTW you are always bragging about the trannies you've got on the side.  None of them use drugs or have any STDs, right?  So you're completely safe, right?

Wow Buzzkill, you chose the name Buzzkill for a good reason, huh?  You're a buzzkill!!!  This person does not have AIDS.  This person caught a cold.  The same cold that I had for a couple weeks and every one else did too.

I didn't even know I had a cold, I guess it was in its beginning stages. Had a hook up date with a brand new to CL TS girl.  A wild passionate date.  Her butt hole was slammed for over an hour in every which way position.  A few days later she emails me asking for honesty.  She asks if the condom ever broke or leaked because she's been feeling gravely sick with flu like symptoms and she fears she attained HIV or AIDS.  I said no, the condom did not break, but I feel a tingling of a cold coming on too and have been popping echenicia.

She suffered a cold or flu for a couple weeks and got all better.  A few weeks later she was emailing me because she wanted her ass slammed again.

IMO, you do not have HIV or AIDS, you have a cold.  Go get some cold meds and feel better.

Even if you did get HIV, it is no longer a "death sentence" Get on the cock tail and you're good for 20+ more years.  Which is not too bad considering a mid 40's person only has about 40 more years on the clock anyway!!!

Condom up and get back to bangin.  Life's too short not to enjoy a tranny ha ha ha

Hey, thanks to all.

...that this is still in the bounds of good taste?


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcvagv6RcWo


Certainly topical.

I don't think you can go back and ever see a post where I was bragging about any encounters. My posts consist mainly of the following:  1) Asking if someone has seen a particular lady I have come across, 2) Responding to someone's inquiry about a certain lady if I have direct knowledge which takes the form of a brief rundown on the experience and asking them to email for details, and 3) Telling people to post a link so Colonel Asshat (CAH) doesn't get carpal tunnel syndrome.  I guess we should just have told the guy that everything is rosy and there is nothing to worry about which it seems like he was wanting to hear so I was just giving the flip side of the coin. I play safe all the time, but given our hobbying interest we all take some risk.

Yeah, who cares if you have HIV, just get on the cocktail.  Life's great.  Kind of simplistic response.  Who knows, dude could have HIV, probably not, the odds are like 10,000 to 1 against it, but now you get your scare out of the way and decide if you want to continue hobbying.  It's a reality that you could catch something, probably not HIV, but something, and now you'll find out if you have the balls to deal with it.

You could directly expose yourself to HIV infected blood and still have like 100 to 1 shot, so the odds are slim.