Haven't sessioned recently, but I still call some of the T-girls on my wishlist. Even though I know there is no way I am going to session that day. The other day I found myself prowling eros.com and TER reviews and Backpage, and with my girlfriend asleep in the other room I proceeded to dial TS numbers for girls that I know are hung and pretty. Does that make me a bad person?
Sometimes I just like to keep my TS phone manner sharp. Even though I know I'm wasting their time. Hey...they have certainly wasted mine over the years...and my money too, so its even steven.
I have my little pitch.. I say hello and my fake name, and say something to make them feel nice...If they dont respond cheerfully to that i dont go any further. But if they perk up and play nice I know they have a chance. Its amazing the difference a sweet manner when you're booking can have on the actual session when you arrive.
I know some of you here know how to charm the trannies...What do you say when you call?
-Söze
hon...this is bit of a "compulsion"(where do you go from here?)...if you have issues with providers that have wasted your time write a review that is reflective of that, that is the best revenge, or even a quick "heads up" on the board is a helpful way to vent, but to play games on the phone by BSing and wasting the time of a provider on your "wishlist" is only putting more of that negative energy out there..."cause and effect" darling, ever heard of it? jaded providers mistreating good guys because of the sins of the bad and the A-hole BSers who dehumanize us for varying reasons too many to list on here...get a grip on this late night while the girlfriend is asleep BS phone game before she catches you or it backfires and a smart girl like Melissa Carter reeks havoc on the jerk playing games on the phone(read her prior post?)
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BOOM, baby, yeah! What you said! I was hoping the gals would chime in here.
Frankly, I'm appalled at the total disregard and obvious discriminatory stereotyping. Providers are people, flesh and blood. To treat them as if they have no right to have your respect is, well, inhumane.
You seem to be using some of your past experiences to rationalize treating people like crap.
Dude, in your situation, calling up girls to satisfy your fruitless urges is wasting their time, energy, money and their phone minutes.
It makes it that much more difficult for a girl to trust an honest client. To extend courtesy to a nervous newbie.
Don't you realize what you're doing?
Do you go through a restaurant's drive-thru, order food, get to the pay window and say, "Oh, I was just fooling around--I really don't want anything."
Seriously, this is not cool. This is not a good example for newbies and wanna-be's.
Interesting strategy. I've never tried the sweet talk/bs move. When I first call a girl I have not met before, it is more just hi, I'm interested in meeting you, when is a good time for that to happen? I'll be sure to ask next time though if my phone manner before hand has messed things up or helped make it a better session.
I've had some bad dates, some no shows-no calls, it's part of the game, but mostly, almost everyone I've met since I started to hobby are actually really nice people. I am not like a white knight guy or anything, I just don't bullshit people on purpose if I can avoid it.
In short, I don't think calling to work on your phone manner makes you a bad person, just maybe a bored one.
This will be fun when you can't get a date. These ladies (collectively) have a very hard and dangerous job to do and by dissing one you are dissing all of them. Here's hoping thay will spread the word around about you. Better stick to GG's --- more for us.
I have had several experiences with men of this nature...It appears to be a compulsive behavior that comes from attention starved (his girlfriend is probably getting well fucked by someone else), sexually confused, extremely insecure, low self esteem guys who spend more time in the mirror than their sleeping girlfriends. The behavior frequently demonstrates the callers confusion of his own sexuality and as well, can even implicate sexual addiction.
As I've received deadbeat callers in the past, frustration has forced me to do a bit of google research. It is amazing how much information you can find about a person if you search the correct links such as whitepagesdotcom and many others, especially if the provider is really pissed and is willing to spend $5-$10 for more detailed info. Also effective is exchanging "deadbeat caller's" information with your TS sisters. This should be a message to the girls that information sharing is very important.
Do your research girls. One number leads to another. Of the several deadbeat callers I've received in the past, google searches allowed me to even discover "employee directories" and on 2 instances, discover their bosses names. It's amazing what happens to a deadbeat caller when a "burned" provider faxes her phone number to the boss introducing herself as an escort, along with the deadbeat callers full name then, suggesting the boss googles providers phone number for verification. My last deadbeat caller pissed me off so badly, he ended up nearly losing his job as well as having to confess to his wife he is a sex addict. Don't fuck with a Tgirls livelihood.
This should be a message to the boys of TER as to why we treat your call as we do.
P.S. No mrsozo, you aren't a bad person. You are just a disrespectful, simple minded, insecure, sexually confused latent homosexual that I am sure sure sooner than later will be sucking mens cocks in the alleys of boystown usa...
P.S. Funny you have so many written reviews yet, you admit you have not sessioned in awhile (3 reviews per month get you a free vip membership, correct?).
Also funny that your last 3 months worth of discussion board posts have wasted the time of TER boys trying to give you advise on stuff you have been making up.
Get a hobby babe, or at least get a life. Or, confess to your girlfriend what a spineless little bitch you are and buy her a strap on. Chances are, she already knows you are a weak little man and is looking for your replacement as we speak.
Now THAT was the reply I was waiting for!!!
GO, JAS, GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God, you're sexy!
Newbies and wanna-be's, listen up: if you're honest and respectful and have sincere passion, a quality girl will love ya. Everything will be great.
But, if you're a disrespectful moron wasting their time and money, oh, dudes, you are sooooo in trouble.
HA Ha...The women I call are always glad to hear from me...they've made thousands on me over the years. They know they will make money, they're hung with over 9 inches, so a few seconds to chat with me wont kill them.
-Söze
If any girls know this morons phone number, you should consider text messaging his phone number to every tgirl provider you know as a truly deadbeat....
This idiot should be banned from TER
"It's amazing what happens to a deadbeat caller when a "burned" provider faxes her phone number to the boss introducing herself as an escort, along with the deadbeat callers full name then, suggesting the boss googles providers phone number for verification. My last deadbeat caller pissed me off so badly, he ended up nearly losing his job as well as having to confess to his wife he is a sex addict. Don't fuck with a Tgirls livelihood."
How do you know he almost lost his job and had to admit to his wife that he's a sex addict? It seems unlikely that you would become privy to that information.
If true, I doubt you would publicly admit to deliberately attempting to destroy another persons life.
I'm a newbie and mostly an observer who enjoys reading the discussion board daily. I'm appalled by your actions and by the moral support you receive from a moderator. I guess it's off to some other social network. Maybe I'll settle for the sports forums.
P.S. If your claims are true, I'm from Australia and that's where you should start your search. LoL
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