Getting scammed. Tried to see someone a few weeks ago. I sent a deposit as requested after verifying she will real via social media, but as soon as I got to the incall location, she ghosted me (all the more bolstering the argument against sending deposits).

Rushing and/or terrible attitude.. Many occasions where I show up for the session (cleaned up, freshly showered, pay the alleged VIP rate, good faith demeanor) only for the provider to rush and have me outta there asap (i.e. book an hour, but leave after 10 minutes). Many occasions where as soon as I walk in the door, no hello or nothing. Immediately starts counting the donation right in front of me before mechanically going through the motions.

Blackmail. Way back in day, someone tried to blackmail me. The provider kept blowing up my phone and demanding money or else they were gonna "expose me." I called their bluff and let her know I was gonna get her for extortion and that ended it right there, but it still sickened me to my stomach.

Needless to say, this kind of stuff seems to happen a lot more with trans providers than it does with GG providers. I'm just going by personal experience. There are a lot of gems out there, but bad actors unfortunately ruin it for everyone else.

I never really had a bad experience or been scammed. I am very careful, I do my research, and Always check reviews!

The bad experiences are the ones that you never have. The girls that you really want to see but they ghost you or they don’t reply to your messages.  
Those are the ones that really sting!

Started with a semi-aggressive beginning but she was attractive and I could see her huge bulge sticking out so I went against my gut instincts, and while I was butt naked sucking her off, her drug dealer totally walked into the room with a key. So there I was with a hard on, sucking her off, and he walks in casually asking her about drugs. When he leaves, I tell her how uncomfortable that made me, and she starts cursing at me and telling me I can leave.  

I still had a hard on, and the vibe is ruined but I am still horny AF, so I ask her to finish me and she starts jerking me off. I had a huge load and blasted all over her hair and tits, but she was aiming my cannon so she shouldn’t have been too mad that I jizzed all over her.  

That experience almost made me give up the hobby, and I think I actually didn’t see another TS provider for quite some time before I got the urge again…

reading the OP's drivel and BS

Granted I'm very new to this hobby, but I've only had one bad experience so far.  Thanks to this site and the wisdom and experience this community has provided me, I've been lucky.  I've only tried 2 unreviewed girls.  The first was ok.  She didn't provide exactly what I was looking for but it was a relatively enjoyable session.  The second unreviewed girl I saw was complete shitshow.

I had been looking at Kylie's ad for months.  Super cute but I couldn't find any reviews.  Finally, I decided to bite the bullet.  Super easy to set up.  She opens the door and she's the girl in the ad.  Total smokeshow.  I thought this is going to be great.  I give her the donation without her asking.  We sit on the couch.  A few kisses.  More like pecks.  Start taking her clothes off.  She starts taking mine off.  Rubbing each other's cocks.  Starting to get hot.  I'm rock hard.  She starts giving me head.  Then the back bedroom door opens.  Her roommate TSRosalia comes out like a tornado.  She interjects herself in our session and asks to join.  I was like sure (even though I wasn't attracted to TSRosalia).  TSRosalia says how much.  I hate this.  I only brought enough cash for the girl I was there to see.  So not much extra.  We start negotiating and that always kills the mood.  She was being very difficult in the negotiation too.  Kept saying you look like you have more money.  And when I pull out my wallet to give her cash, she paws at my wallet saying you have more money.  Finally, we agree and get down to business.  I was more interested in Kylie and not focused on TSRosalia.  TSRosalia grabs my phone while I'm busy with Kylie and holds it up to my face to unlock it.  She then starts going through my phone, taking selfies, sending herself texts and searching for payment apps.  As quickly as I could I demand my phone back.  She does give it back but then leaves the room and comes back with a tequila shot.  She spills half of it on me and then takes my sunglasses.  At this point I tried just ignoring her and trying to get busy with Kylie.  TSRosalia then leaves the room again only to return 5 minutes later telling me that I had to leave.  Spent way too much money and out the door with a hard on.

Kylie was super hot but young.  TSRosalia was older and I think kind of controlled her.  The whole thing was just unprofessional.  It was pretty much a scam.  Although, I've heard worse on this site (count my blessings).  They said they do this all the time and don't tell the guy because they probably wouldn't come if they knew.