44yo married man.  Never done anything ever with another guy.  The fantasy started with a Domme who really got off on the fantasy, and her control over me, sort of seeing how far she could get me to go.

I had always thought that it would be best for a Domme with like interests to put together the senario, real time.  Never had much knowledge or interest in TS.  But recently, thought that there are some  Domme TS, and wondered, should the first cock I suck be a TS or should I stay with a Domme who makes me suck a guy?

You all have more experience than I, and thus  the question.

I have no real interest in 'pleasing the guy', it is more for the Domme, to see the look in her eye.  IF a TS, I want a very feminine, girl sounding, very pretty girl.  Preference would be for a larger cock, and cut.  I would also think  that it would be necessary to achieve a semen spill, as I do want some reward  for my  labor.

Last question, bare or covered.

Take  me serious, I have thought about  it  for along  time, and  want to make the best decision.  Thanks for your help and if you have any recommendations, I travel frequently, and would rather wait for the right person,  than have a bad session with a fake,or flake.
THANKS

Hey Sweetie - check out my other threads on the topic of first time exp[eriences - and please take a look at our web site and get in touch if you'd like.

If you are in San Diego we'd love to introduce you (or anyone else who's interested) to "our side!"

Giggle,
TS Jamie

If you still see the same Domme, I would work it into a session with her.  Whether you choose a guy or TS will depend on you and her.  In either case, she will be directing the act, so it will surely be performed in a dominant manner.  If you are into it for the humiliation aspect, you have to ask yourself whether it is more taboo to suck a guy or a TS and what are your limits.  If you aren't sure if you can/want to go through with it in front of her, you can try on your own.

Covered or uncovered is truly a personal choice.  There are obvious risks with the latter and you need to decide whether you are willing to accept them.  Lots of links available here if you search the board that might help you to understand the risks.  You could always simulate the act on a dildo or vibrator which would be totally safe as long as it is clean (and preferrably only used by you).

As for choosing the specific provider, read the reviews, find a few "top" girls in her area that fit the bill and discuss with your domme.

this isn't a dating board. most here are guys who want a tranny to suck their dick.

your best bet is to find a nice provider and call her up.

My own personal feeling is that there is just something more erotic about being dominated by a beautiful woman who is making you suck HER cock while she whips you.Each time you fail to do it correctly she whips you and then sodomizes you.