Transsexual
An event out with an escort (before or after) BCD can be a great thing and certainly adds to the total experience. However, besides the often obvious significant age difference, which will probably attract attention anyway, public displays of affection (PDA’s) can certainly be a big turn off because they are much more problematic than just being seen out with someone (particularly in your own backyard - LOL)! Usually when I hear about such PDA experiences it can be attributed to the escort’s inexperience with ‘dates’ outside BCD.
As we all know time is money and spending time outside of BCD has a significant opportunity cost for the provider. Generally there is an expectation that such time should also be compensated, according to the circumstances and as appropriate. It always helps to have this understood up front. Misalignment of expectations is almost always a recipe for disaster. That having been said, a provider asking for abstention several days prior to the appointment would seem like a very good sign and would certainly raise my expectations indeed!
Escorting is a ‘performance’ art form and can extend well beyond BCD with websites, emails, phone calls and even other time outside BCD. Any additional investment outside of BCD should have its rewards as well. An experienced escort should know that they are also ‘on’ when they are with a client outside of BCD and should also know how to provide a great experience (performance) in both venues. I am sorry for your disappointment HOF, but one thing I am sure of is that you will keep trying. As you seem to know and I would agree, there is much more to this hobby than just BCD 
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Take care,
TS Tempted
Here’s what ssteveowens said when introducing his original post about a recent visit with Lavinia back on 9/1/2006:
“o sure she still fucked me silly BUT…” (BTW I think that’s one of the all time great quotes…).
He also made a comment specifically for her at the end of his post:
“i hope you read this girl because you can still be one of the best but last night your attitude sucked!!!”
HOF is certainly correct in that this sort of behavior is inexcusable and that ‘props’ should go to all the providers out there who don’t bait and switch, field calls during appointments, up-sell or hit their clients. Reporting such behavior is also what this board is all about. This forum is also about exchanging and discussing information that, for whatever reasons, cannot usually be covered in the format of a review (or replacement review). Providers can learn from reviews and this forum too and the good ones (i.e. the professional ones) certainly will look objectively at all this information as feedback on their performance and services.
Since the incident reported by ssteveowens, vwjetta has reported a favorable visit with Lavinia. Unfortunately there have been no new formal reviews on Lavinia since that time. In addition to taking away much useful information I have enjoyed reading all the recent Lavinia threads immensely . Many thanks to all of our contributors, newbies and veterans alike…
Regards,
TS Tempted
P.S. Thanks to ssteveowens for making me look up his use of the term ‘props’. I’d seen it before and its meaning was always clear from the context but now I much better understand where it comes from and its usage: props (noun) - proper respect - "I have to give my props to the governor for the way he handled the problem"
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Steve, since you have already stated you would never see her again she understandably isn't offering you a free session because you said you dont want one.
By the way I would be willing to do my part to help here by aceping a free session with her in your place.