Well after posing the question a few weeks ago about which is better, I decided to investigate and form my own opinion: What I found is that each has its advantages and disadvantages.

Strap-on: is always ready, and absolutely no concerns about it getting soft, it can be adjusted / swapped out to start smaller and then go larger.

TS Top: There is definately a different feeling when you know that someone is inside of you and not attached to something inside of you, that a strap on could never compare to. It is just hotter. Not to mention that the action being conducted on the device inside of you is very different when the person attached to it can actually feel it.

For my conclusion, I would say that a really good TS top would beat a strap on every day; however, if a really good TS top is not available a strap on would be a better substitue than TOFTT or someone who just claims to be a great top and is trying to fake it (been there too many times).

I hope this pleases all of you ladies, that I would definately recommend you over a toy, lol.