Ladies of Philly and Washington - I need some help

I am a  total newbie at Transexual, but not at doing my homework on what I might like.  I know I can find regular women who can accomodate me - in all locations .  I live far away from both places but was looking at taking a day trip to see the right provider.  Thus far,  In both Philly and Washington, I've found two very hotties who I won't be seeing right away... although I suspect after I become a little more experienced I'll fix that.   I was told by my Regulars in the past that I should warn women that I am absolutely  porn worthy.  In one case I detected a lot of apprehension - in another it was a no way... Both were super nice and I appreciate the honesty.   I sure don't know how I could get started without something that I am familiar with....

So please Ladies help me out....hell T Girls or otherwise