So can someone please explain why when a girl gets surgery, new tits, maybe some plastic surgery, it seems she gets less interested, rude and the service begins to lack. I have been seeing this girl for a couple of years now.  When I first started seeing her, she was was pretty and had hair to her shoulders, but defiantly more on the TV side.  She had the absolute best service.  Every time I left her place, I felt happy and fulfilled. She then started to get work done, got titties and a little facial work done.  She grew her hair to the middle of her back and looked pretty good.  But what I noticed was the prettier or more feminine she got the worse the service and the ruder she got (towards me anyways). The last time I saw her she didn't even talk or smile. I always treat her nice, tip well and keep myself clean but she is now hard to be around. This is the second time this has happened to me with a girl who was progressing with her looks.  I kind of like staying with one girl but can figure this out.  If anything I'd image the girl would treat me better because I helped fund what she has done.  What gives?

The better the looks get, the more clients she attracts, the more jaded she becomes.

familiarity breeds contempt. some relationships go that way, and it is a relationship, even if a business one.

... a healthy dose of narcissism and you got pure, refined, curated toxicity. Avoid.

It's not just providers who are bettering their looks.  I've had numerous providers treat me incrementally worse each visit, to the point where I stopped seeing them.  I'm polite, I pay what they ask, I follow their rules, I'm not pushy, I don't smell, I don't no-show.  And I'm not violent and/or a weirdo and/or a time-waster.  I know I'm not a Brad Pitt sugar daddy with a private plane, but how many of those guys are out there?   If you listen to providers, some of them seem plagued by just the worst customers.  And I'm not one of those.  This hasn't happened to me with every provider I've seen, but it has happened.  So I don't think it's me.  Maybe middle-of-the-road dudes that want to have a little fun and don't cause trouble are a dime-a-dozen.  I don't get it.

Never encountered that in a business relationship. As long as the relationship continues to be contractual (you play, you pay) and both parties are getting what they want, they love familiarity and the comfy easy money it produces. She may have a screw loose but that has nada to do with familiarity.

I have noticed the same trend , yes they are getting more calls busier I understand but consistant money with someone safe and treats you well used to be rewarded not any longer it seems . The new trend rush and less service no matter how much I like them I have let a couple regulars go for good . To bad anyone with a business knows you don't chase off your regulars

Lots of trans women get into sex work to fund their transition. Sex work used to be getting her closer to her goals and aspirations. Now that she has transitioned sex work is just a source of money and is less fulfilling. However its the only job she has and the only way to make money. This is leading to burnout.  

This is a huge can of worms to unpack. I second much of the comments here and think its primarily becasue human nature is simply that way. Unlike genetic providers trans providers start off as boys who transition at some point. Sex work for trans is often to fund a transition. The closer they get to who they want to become, their interest in clients and the business in general may fall off. They may also think they're too hot or too good for a given client and act arrogant becasue of it. Providers who were sexually manipulated or abused when they were younger, which is most of them, both genetic and trans, carry that weight on their shoulders also. The longer in the hobby the more their subconscious thoughts surface and behaviors may become more dysfunctional. Ultimately, I simply think it's human nature in most cases and the ugly side of sex work in general...

Quite insightful, thx.

I appreciate all the comments.  It's too bad, because I really enjoyed seeing this person.  Thats why I'm not mentioning names because I don't want to hurt her business in any way.  Her body is bomb just not the same person I use to see.  Oh well Thanks again.

... about hurting her business when, despite being a long-term, paying, hassle-free, clean client, she treated you with so much disdain that you don't even want to see her any more, yet won't identify her to help mates here. (I've always been curious about what motivates this 'gentleman/simp' sh*t that pops up way too often.)