Actually not...

I'll answer.  Honestly even...

NO, I haven't yet met anyone I would't sleep with.  And it's not just because I'm a slut who will sleep with anyone... giggle.

But I've never encountered anyone I considered seriously "ugly."  I've met a few losers I won't date again, and a few guys who could stand a bath or visit to a dentist.  But never anyone that I was like, "yeach..."

I think girls see men differently than guys see each other or women.  When guys see girls, so often they have their measuring tape out and rate us on a point system for looks or performance.  Girls don't do that.  They are more like, "so and so is soooo mean, or such a loser."  Girls see a man's success more than his haircut or the cut of his belly.

I remember when I was living as a guy I'd wonder what girls saw in some men.  There was this kid in high school who looked like a grenade went off in his face.  He had ALL the girls.  I didn't really know him and I couldn't figure out how he was so popular.  Years later I realized, he was just a damm nice guy.  The girls didn't see his face, they saw his heart.

As I transitioned and my brain pattern changed to a female mindset I found the same thing.  A guys appearance has very little to do with whether I'm attracted or not.  Two of my good "bar buddies" are quite heavy, and they are both really nice gentlemen who's company I enjoy.

I've dated guys in wheelchairs, and missing limbs.  I've dated fat guys and 18 year old boy toys.  I dated one 73yr old gent who did it FIVE times in one night... and some 25 year old drunks who couldn't get it up at all.

So give me a fat ugly guy over a hot sexy assh**e anytime!

Giggle,
TS Jamie

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