I've been a hobbyist for a couple of years now, and if I haven't seen it all, I've seen most of it.  I try to be very respectful of providers, and have hopped through a great many hoops to demonstrate my seriousness.  One thing I pride myself on is punctuality -- I am always on time for a session -- and I prefer punctuality in the providers I see.  I realize that "shit happens", but when I call and make an appointment for a specific time, I know that I'll be there at that time, and I generally expect the same from the provider.

This morning, I called TS Vanne and asked if she would be available at a given time, 50 minutes from 'now', for an hour session.  She agreed, and told me her location, and to call when I arrived (standard 2-call system).  When I made the second call, she wasn't ready but she told me it would only be 5 minutes and that she would call me back.  I'm always willing to give a provider a little bit more time, and 5 minutes isn't unreasonable to wait, so I found an inconspicuous place to wait.  And I waited.  Then I waited some more.  After 20 minutes, I called back, and her response was "I just got out of the shower, can you wait another 10 minutes?"  At that point, my answer was "no", for two reasons:  first, because I had a tight schedule and an hour session had just been cut down to 30 minutes, and second, because I was now angry, and that wasn't going to result in a good session for anyone.

Predictably, her response was to blame me and threaten to "post urban number everywhere maggot good luck".

If she wasn't going to be ready at the appointed hour, she shouldn't have agreed to the appointment in the first place.  I can understand a 5-minute delay, but not a 30-minute delay, not without a good reason.

Am I being unreasonable?

I would say no. Its a two way street.

-- Modified on 8/13/2012 11:13:00 PM

Almost the same sequence of events occurred when I scheduled a visit to Vanne. With all the  failure to show by hobbyists, she appears to wait until the call-back with "I am in the area, at the hotel" to then get ready. But the "5 minutes" really becomes 30 minutes with her. Likewise, I found an inconspicuous place to wait -- and at about 25 minutes after the scheduled meeting time, she called back with the "OK, I am ready." I have waited up to 30 minutes for just a handful of others -- but that is typically my limit, then I am on my way. I am guessing there are far more "failure to show's" then "failure to be on time." Expecting one to wait a half-hour is not usual, and perhaps unreasonable -- but I don't get angry, I just leave. Footnote -- I did wait to see Vanne, and she is as beautiful as her photos, just gorgeous.

Priscilla, I was intrigued to see that a pro such as yourself, with so many great reviews, would jump to the defense
Of a provider who not only thought that her clients time/schedule was insignificant compared to her own...but who
Also stooped to threaten his anonymity by publishing his contact info on open forums when he opted out of the appt.
For those of us who feel this clients behavior was reasonable I wonder if you could elaborate as to why you endorse such behavior in another provider.

I Agree with you ... She made me wait around 15 mnts. she was hiding someone in the bathroom ,., totally rushed session.. i was out like in 5 mnts.... totally avoidable... you would think that with so many reviews ... the experience  would be good ,.,.., but i am starting to doubt some of the reviews on her..... anyways.. its better to avoid some one who does not respect client ...if you give respect.,....

I did NOT mean to defend Vanne. I was agreeing that someone like a client should not be waiting no more then 10-15mins tops for a provider. I do know that she travels with a male. So be careful boys

sorry for the miss understanding I find the Client to be right he should not have to wait 30 mins

Thanks for the clarification, and the support; I wish you were visiting the DC area.

though some look at this as buying a "product" and others as purchasing an "experience", the fact remains that this is a business appointment...whether buyer or selling, each needs to be respectable of the other's time.

Provider~ be honest about services offered and time available...if not GFE/PSE/upscale/passable;don't advertise as such

be impeccably clean(body, breath, outfit and  in~call)

set the atmosphere(sexy music & candlelight)

remember, EVERY gent is a VIP and ads with separate rate structures can cause quite a negative session or an incredible client from ever contacting you in the first place

be ready well before appointment time(nothing worse than having a run in your hosiery just as the doorbell rings)


Hobbyist~ be realistic with your expectations( if ad looks TGTBT expect to turn a 180 and walk away, as I almost never hear it be a successful encounter)...don't be afraid to ask questions(just be respectful in approach) and if she is evasive...what is she hiding?

leave for the rendezvous with time to spare(nothing worse than a traffic jam or an impossible parking situation)...also keep provider informed that you're going to be a few minutes late(if appointment is at 3PM, do NOT call at 3PM that you're going to be late haha)...especially when a provider is on tour, she doesn't have time to be behind schedule,; can throw off her other bookings and she will lose money

don't over stay your welcome(if you booked 1 hour and you are now looking to "hang out" or go another round, then chances are she won't see you again, but if she desires your company longer off the clock, chances are she will let you know or ask if you'd like to extend the paid booking)

if she is a rip off/scammer, don't walk, but RUN back here and notify the board and then take just a few minutes and write a brief review to warn others(funny how many ask about a provider and say they're going to TOFTT and then we never hear back if she is legit or not)

keep contact to a minimum(nothing worse than a hobbyist who waste time with tons of back and forth emails and phone calls...many times if we feel a bit of obsessed/stalker type vibe, we will cancel the appointment funny most times the gent is only a 1 hour appointment and he has sent 10+ emails)

also, like the provider, be impeccably clean(body & breath)...unless you are coming from your home/hotel freshly showered, you are NOT clean and you are creating a "glass ceiling" to both or your enjoyment...also remember, wash cloths were created for a reason SCRUB SCRUB SCRUB...always ask the provider if she offers a chance to freshen up, as you are coming from a long drive or work, etc

now...go out there and fuck somebody kids...haha

dfk,
Rachel

I have to meet you Rachel, what a classey answer, it is a business arrangement so ladies be on time and I will dress GREEN.

Oh....i'm speechless....
It's so true Rachel!

And Yes, i have seen Minver23  2 or 3 times.  He is always respectful and on time!

Tia ...

Thank you for your kind words.  I would have liked to have seen you on your last pass through, if only I had been in town my self.

- Miniver -

Have a great weekend sweetie.