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This may sound judgemental but please understand I don't mean it too

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posted 21 years ago

And I also apologize if this topic is redundant. (New to this site and this board)Just wondering what you guys think a man's sexual "status" is if he's with a TS? How many guys on here have been with one and consider themselves to be totaly strait? I admit I've considered being with a TS, but never with a guy. Looking at a guy does nothing for me. I don't know if even thinking about it makes me bi-sexual, and I really don't care with regard to my personal feelings about myself, but I admit that It's nothing I'd ever tell my freinds about! On the same token, I've also thought of having a woman strap one on me, would most of you consider that a strait sex act because it's with a woman? Or does a man taking it in the rear pretty much constitute a gay sex act regardless? The conclusion I've come to, is that it's not really about being "Bi" or "Gay" so much as it is about me wanting to explore my submissive side. Wondering what your comments are. Sorry if I offended anybody.

houndog21 years ago8544 reads

Re:This may sound judgemental but please understand I don't mean it too

I think there are alot of shades of sexuality. When a straight lady rims you or plays with your ass with a toy...does that mean you're gay or does it mean that it feels good at the time and you enjoy it as part of the experience???
I think that it gets fuzzier when you're with a TS in that they do think of themselves as a lady or a girl, but their equipment differs.....
Are they a third sex??? That is another question and I think may have some validity. If you like being in the sack with a T-girl, and enjoy her functionality as well has either being submissive or dominant.....my belief is that you are probably bi, and that just happens to be how the shoe fits. Most guys who enjoy relationships with T-girls would not want to be with a man.....so there the 100% gay definition goes out the window. The most important thing is not to worry about all of this, and just be comfortable with yourself.

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rifraf9200021 years ago7639 reads

Re:This may sound judgemental but please understand I don't mean it too

IMHO I feel that as a country we are way too caght up on labels. You have to be this or that or if you do this or that you are something else. Who cares? In the end what does it matter? Just do what feels right and forget the labels. I have the label I feel we should all use...Human being

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cruiser121 years ago7154 reads

Re:This may sound judgemental but please understand I don't mean it too

If you have an interest and your pursuit of it won't hurt anyone, go ahead. What we think shouldn't matter. We don't even know each other! Houndog is right. Ther is such a wide spectrum of behaviour. Use the info here and explore your desires.

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foo21 years ago7942 reads

Re:This may sound judgemental but please understand I don't mean it too

Personally, I define my sexuality by the type of people I'm sexually attracted to.

I'm only attracted to those who look like a woman when they have their clothes on. The male physique does nothing for me. The person's got to have breasts, hips, and so on. Doesn't matter what's between her legs.

There are others who will say sex with a pre-op TS makes you gay, and others that will say a post-op TS makes you gay, and others that will say taking anything in your ass from anyone makes you gay. However, their opinions really don't matter.

Frankly your sexuality is your sexuality. Just enjoy it, don't label it.

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TS Newbie9921 years ago7334 reads

Re:This may sound judgemental but please understand I don't mean it too

I had my first experience recently with a T-Girl
and it was wonderful. I've never had any interest in a man. I love women and their bodies, and I loved my very well-hung T-Girl. I've never sucked a cock before but I loved sucking hers. I've had female dominants fuck me with a strap on but being fucked by her huge cock, while it hurt like hell, was very satisfying.

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marquis99921 years ago6362 reads

Re:This may sound judgemental but please understand I don't mean it too

One of the comics on the "Blue Collar Comedy Tour" has an intersting bit that operates on the premise that everybody is Gay, it's just a question of degree.

While trying to convince his buddy of this theory he asks, "Do you watch porn?"

Buddy says "Yeah..."

Comic: "Do you watch solo porn or heterosexual porn?"
Buddy: "Hetero porn"
Comic: "When the guy and the girl are together and getting it on, do you want a tiny little limp dick or a big hard throbbing dick?"
Buddy: "I want a big hard throbbing dick...Oh my Gawd! I'm GAY!"

Sorry I can't do it justice here, but it's rather amusing and does kind of make the point. I must admit that when I see a huge cock in hetero porn that it turns me on just like seeing huge tits. When it comes to the real world though, I prefer my bisexuality in a single package of the Transsexual variety.