Every time? Sometimes? Only on "special" occasions? Only if the escort has experience with them? You've only done it once? Never?

 
I've had varying experiences.
The Tantra chair seems to be standard furniture for lots of Tijuana's love motels/hotels, not all of them, but some. Sometimes, just based on the motel/hotel itself and on the level of room I've paid for, one or more of the three items were already in the room without me asking for them. Other times, I specifically ask for rooms that have my preference: the sex swing. I've never asked for a stripper pole, but sometimes the room I've been assigned has had one. It can be fun if an escort has never used one of these items and is game to try it for the first time with you.

There have been plenty of times that, for any number of reasons, the entire session goes by without us ever using the Tantra chair or sex swing. Not all women are comfortable with doing it, or are unsure, or uninterested,  whatever. Some women are worried about falling from the swing. One told me she had vertigo and couldn't get on a swing without getting violently dizzy. I usually go for petite or slender women, so being too big or too heavy for the sex swing is not an issue. Another simply told me she preferred the bed, the sofa, and the shower stall for having sex. Lots of times, the escort and I have been so focused on our fucking that we forgot to use the extras, or the clock just ran out.

I'm not a fan of strip clubs, so the stripper poles don't do much of anything for me at all, I just ignore them. Once, as soon as she stepped in the room, an escort saw the pole and happily said, "Oh, look, you got a stripper pole for us!" She grabbed it with one hand and swung around it one time, then told me she didn't know how to climb it for doing tricks, but that one day she'd sure love to learn. I told her I didn't mind because it wasn't my thing, and we both laughed. It remained untouched the rest of the night.

I always take a packet of sanitary wipes with me when I hobby, and in motel/hotel rooms, I wait until the escort is there and I clean the Tantra chair or sex swing thoroughly so that we both know it's germ-free.