She wants to meet me in RI ...... This would be my first SB date on SA ...... Whadda ya think ? She's super cute .......

Maybe she is the one hot, sexy chick at MIT.  You should try to tap that! (lol)  You should demand that the first time you meet up, that she has to wear a bikini made out of Bunsen burners and Erlenmeyer flasks.    

Maybe you've done this already, but if you have to travel a long way, you might want to confirm looks on skype or snapchat, and also get $$ convo out of the way, just to make sure she knows about BCD and doesn't ask for more than you can afford after you've driven that far.  I've taken chances on both looks and expectations, but only when it was low time/cost investment on my part.

Remote SBs can be a great option, though, so good luck!

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He could be in Taunton and she could be in Providence and only be a twenty minute drive from each other. Even if he is in Boston, it's still barely an hours drive.  

As for the HI phone number, I wouldn't be too worried about that, people live in one state and have phone numbers from other states all the time. My phone is still an Atlanta number and I haven't lived in Atlanta for several years now.

she wanted 1 -200 for me to take her to dinner . I said I usually don't do that and asked about bcd agreement and all talk ceased .... so far .She did send me a pic and she is cute . I thought it was a scam at first .

1 - 200 to just meet for dinner is YUGE red flag! Abort! There are plenty of other (closer) babies in the Sugar Bowl that you can meet for free and fuck later!

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I asked her to send me a picture of something specific . She sent it . She is cute but blew me off when I said I wasn't going to pay her to eat . I told her hey no problem I can respect her boundaries , etc but got no reply . Today , she got back to me and said she got caught up in something and apologized for being rude ..... we'll see how this goes if I decide to take the plunge .