yesterday, I was in touch during much of the day with three POT SB's, one local and two others purportedly about 100 miles away.

POT number one, Thai lady, 30 something, actually from Thailand and quite the looker. We exchanged messages throughout the day and she seemed to like the fact I knew a couple of Thai words. Naturally I did NOT tell her I learned them from my hooker Ex GF. lol After about a dozen messages I ask her what part of OKC she is in and she informs me she actually lives in Wichita fucking Kansas, I mean WTF???!!! So much for POT number one.

POT number two. Middle Eastern girl, just under thirty and also quite the looker, We almost immediately get off the SA message system and go to text. She "claims" to live about two hours away, wants to meet right away and I start thinking to myself, "this could work" I tell her that to drive that far might take a little planning to which she responds, she can come to me. Sounds good, right? Yeah, sure it does. lol She says "can I ask you something first?" Well of course she can, the question of course is "can I have some gas money?" Fucking scamming cunt!!! We go back and forth for a while about why I won't send money and the longer we talk, the more convinced I am she most likely was in the fucking Ukraine or somewhere, "if" she was even a she. lol So much for POT number two.

POT number three. Mixed race girl, local and 19 years old. VERY responsive, seems nice and not BSC, only problem is, her pics are face pics only and she lists herself as "curvy" I tell her flat out I am not interested in "fat girls", but she assures me she is "slim" but has curves so that's why she listed herself that way.  AAR, I am tired of watching NFL football as I only made a couple of bets since I like to get a feel for NFL before making any big bets, so I invite her for lunch. You guessed it, she was slim, slim for a fucking walrus. lol I go ahead with lunch anyhow as I have nothing better to do. We have a nice lunch, I have a couple of glasses of wine, she of course is too young to drink, with each glass of wine I start thinking to myself "maybe this won't be too bad, she's not that fat and she is young and kind of cute" I pay the tab, we both get up to leave and I am thinking that maybe I will ask her to come home with me so she can have a drink too and see where it leads as I KNOW she is interested in me. Well fuck, once she stands up, I can see just how fucking fat she is and so much for POT number three. lol BTW, we hug goodbye and I can barely get my fucking arms around her, What the fuck was I thinking???!!!

Oh well, it's nice to have back ups, I text my "go to" SB that I see a few times a week, fuck her and try to put the rest of the day behind me. I also put a couple of grand on the Cubbies to beat the Astros, so the day was not a complete loss, but all in all, it was NOT a good day in the Sugar Bowl. anyone else have any horror stories to share?

Mine sucks out loud

I've got a 40 yo that has curvy in her build section. I asked for some selfies. 4 close up head shots. Me thinks she's fat.

I am meeting up with a 29 yo SB - who posted only face pictures and I had the same concern. Had a coffee with her to confirm - she is a nice sane lady, attractive, has decent tits and not fat but a little thick in her legs - ass average. And yes - I can easily get my arms around her - LOL. My guess is anytime you see only face photos - you should have concern about the body. Any woman with a great bod is going to show it to you, probably even before a face picture - right??  

Which leads me to a question, outside of the high dollar arrangements which I assume are hot woman, I mean why else would you pay big$$$$ - What do most of these girls look like - on the 1-10 scale face and body? I prefer 8's, 9's, and 10's like anyone else, but is that realistic in the SBowl, assuming your looking at $2XX- $3XX or so a visit - mid west market not top tier (guessing this is more like 4XX - 5xx in the big boy leagues)? Just curious?  
 

I meant a very good first meeting, you dirty old men with minds (alike) in the gutter

This one has an LT potential and flavor but there has been no discussion of an actual allowance as she was shy and felt awkward about articulating that side of the deal whenever I brought it up directly. I put her nervousness at ease and asked her out again for lunch to gauge as to whether the second time interaction between us is going to be as smooth and seamless. I detect a case of sapiosexualism in this case as she's quite the erudite, very bright and actually studying in a very good college!!! It's either going to cost me a LOT which I will have to abandon although I didn't see any bad and ghetto habits like picking the most expensive items of the menu in a sorta pricy restaurant, or it's gonna be one of those grey line arrangement mixed in with regular thing which I would like to avoid the latter if possible. This "date" was clearly a GaGa play as I enjoyed the money which I spent on great food with excellent company so just leaving it at that.

Two others lined up for the week, but one is already taxing my patience because I mistook her location with another girl I've been talking to which seems to have struck a nerve with her because she kept telling me that perhaps I'm in touch with too many other girls! I mean WTF?! So what that I am? I like the banter and the flirtation plus whatever happened to this NSA BS 90% of them keep emphasizing on. Lady, I have not even met you yet! Just chill the Eff out...

Last one strikes me as a "club" girl or something as I judge from her photos and attire. Certainly not the most educated one like the other two but seems cool and a bot if that AZN mixed in with white blood going on. Arm candy for sure but she sates "Moderate" as her expectations whereas I'm in "Practical" zone but may change that to "Negotiable" which will undoubtedly seem and sound P4P. The half AZN one I have the personal skills set in my repertoire to break her down no matter as to how cool and club type girl she thinks that she is. I'm going to be in Zangari's crosshairs for saying this, but as a former "playa" I can still play with certain cool chicks who have the cool vibe as long as they're not all tatted up and into the younger guys whose entire lives smell like weed! Lastly, there are 2 pure P4P ones as my fallback, one whom I've already spent time with and the other is ready to go once our schedules mesh (could have during the weekend, but went with option #1 instead as described above).

Beside these, I have a few new lines in the water but since weekend was busy haven't checked those yet and have no desire right now for new lines till I see this week through. I'll let the freshly signed up ones go to my Hommie SftD

I have been catfished by a few TER 5-6s, including the one yesterday.  

I have seen a few women for multi hour dates in the $3-400 range who were TER 8-9s, along with one little cutie for $400 for about a four hour date  who most likely would have gotten a lot of TER 10's

I have seen a few quasi hookers for around $200 hr that also would be getting TER 8s 9s and even 10's,  

I have also seen a couple  TER 7's that I have gotten down to a hundred bucks a visit, sex only, no wining or dining, just purely "lets fuck". Both of them started at around $200, but I made deals to see them on a regular "multiple times per week" basis, One of them I simply got tired of fucking, the other I still see 2-3 times a week.

I live in an area with lots of smokin hot latinas. The ones I  have seen have been 8 to 10s. For sure way hotter yhan I  would get in real life. They usually  want 300 or 400. But my current doesnt want money. I  buy her some things but nothing extravagant.

Plus throw in the asians and thr socal blonds and Im a happy camper. For now lol.

Thanks for the feedback - that's about what I thought. And has been said many times on these pages in the P4P world, always do your homework - I am sure even much more so in SB land. I am typically just looking just for an hour visit or so - I just don't have enough time in my schedule most days and typically I am one and done. Maybe in this world with the right lady - that could change, who knows. one can hope!    

Saving for me? Lol. I wonder how many ladies we have mutually contacted.

However, I can definitely discern stylistic differences between us so I doubt it if we ever cross swords that often

That said, I'll have a beer with you any time to shoot the sh*t!

getting even plus doing your Northern buddies a big favor.  We know how to drink them pretty, even the fat one.

You get pms yet?

I'm over the hookers in our fair city. Sticking to my new, no review ID in the basic format.

Well I can meet for a beer if you are in north county.  

Watching this forum is addicting and is no better than watching a fuck soap. God I love it. Like napalm in the morning.

GaGa, Princess, SFTD, even Zig, you guys are my heros. LOL.

I've got one in ATL lined up for next week which is more like a quasi-hooker but we'll see. Trying to find one in Philly but am weeding out a lot of BS at the moment. Have a back up provider I like and know for later in the week if I can't get through the BS. Oh and a Walrus that said she was will to fuck me for 4bills. Suppose to meet hot 24yo tomorrow. We'll see.

I'm farther south in Del Mar East but next time in the area perhaps!

It's Principium you MutterFarker!

Latin for Original!

Not sure how to do that

I think you can change your search field from women to men and start looking up dudes!

Update from yesterday, This morning I got a text from the fat one and I quote "Was I not your cup of tea daddy?"

I am debating on how to respond. Something nice and tactful or maybe something like "I like tea, but not a tanker truck full of it" lol

Sorry autocorrect got me when I was trying to shorten it up. Plus I was typing on my phone since I'm on the road.

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I just went back and read the exchange on the branch above. Maybe I had it right if he is going to start looking guys to communicate with via SA.

In fact when I disappear and resurrect myself on SA for the umpteenth time, I may come back as Principessa

So far as looking up the dues as a DUDE, nothing more gives most of 'em the Heebie-Jeebies than this one action. If I had the time to be cussed out by a bunch of fellas on eBay for scouting them as a dude, I'd do it just to p*ss 'em off

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We xan meet at the kraken.

Not! I m traumatized.

For a lady to be annoyed that you confused her with someone else, or concerned that you are chasing lots of other girls while the two of you are exploring possibilities? Two thoughts on that:

Whether it is unreasonable or not, the only women who will not have that attitude are the hookers on SA. All the others are going to feel that way, or at least say they do.

And if the lady in question is seriously considering taking you on as an SD, that is a large red flag you just waved in her face, reading something like "No matter how well this goes, this guy is probably a player and won't keep coming back."

I think you are just annoyed cause you fucked it up. I have done something similar, and I know that is how I felt. The lady is not in the wrong.

zig

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