I saw a provider at a hotel while on vacation, it was our first time together. I went to perform daty on her and she said to wait a little because she was still sensitive. She went on to say she just left another client. I was IMMEDIATELY turned on, possibly more than ever in my life. I asked her to give me details of that experience and she told me all about it. I have seen quite a few providers and I knew there was a chance they might have seen someone before me but I never gave it much thought and it never came up. Since that experience I always hope the provider has seen someone before me. One time since then I asked a provider if she saw someone before me and she seemed uncomfortable about being asked.......So here is where I need help. 1. Is it strange that I am into that, I would suppose most guys wouldn't be into that. 2. Is there a good way to approach a provider about that? Thanks for your help!

This whole hobby is about catering to the tastes and pleasures of the client.  That's why we pay money.

I think that most clients, myself included, would be a bit turned off by thinking about "our" provider being with someone else, because the traditional fantasy is that she was put on this earth just for us.

But there is a well know fantasy, the so called cuckold syndrome, of men who get turned on by having their wife or girlfriend consort with another man right in your presence.

All I can say is "enjoy".  It''s your dime and you have every right to enjoy the activites that she is willing to offer and you appreciate.

Good heavens, A J,

It's just fiiiine! In fact, it's more than fine, it's way more common than most people think. Some men love to hear about "guys who have been there before;" in fact, there are entire phantasy scenarios spun around the very topic in "encounter-land." But I will say this, and that is that many times, it remains a phantasy and not a reality. One man told of his phantasy to hide in the closet while the provider was sexing it with another client. I advised him to be careful, with the result that he looked at me, quite sternly and said "I'm not REALLY going to do THAT!" Still, during sex, he would encourage the provider to "tell him" about all the encounters, how she had climaxed, what was done to her, etc. It was mostly about HER, and not the other guy. He would talk about smelling her panties, digging his finger in and finding sperm from the other guy [impossible, since she was practicing safe sex,] but mostly, the phantasy served him to get him so excited that he just collapsed in a total heaplet after the deed was done. Sounds fab to me!!!

In response to your second question: providers don't mind one bit. A professional quickly gets the hang of the gist and will go with it to the nth degree if necessary. Actually, I wouldn't approach the provider with it beforehand because it could get a little "scripted." Best to spring it in the heat of the moment. Start asking gently about "other guys you've seen.." Then tell her, "I wanna hear all about it.." and so on. Now, if you really, really get off on smelling her underwear, ask her beforehand to wear some panties/thong/whatever that hasn't been washed from a previous encounter.She will certainly get the drift unless she's very, very inexperienced. And if she's a good dirty talker - oh boy, now I wish I was hiding in that closet!!!!

Go for it,
the Love Goddess

LG,
Maybe a stupid question but where is "encounter-land"?

...you go down for a lil munch on the 'ol carpet...and you taste or smell latex.

Not the best taste.  It's like having somebody stick a gloved hand in your mouth.

Unless, of course, your predecessor just used a *flavored* condom.  In which case, you might just enjoy it (lol)!!

BS