"some" women who are a bit older are easier to deal with, others are simply more experienced at scamming.
I have had some very young ones flat rock my world in bed and who only needed a pittance in allowance. So far I have had almost no BSC SB's in the 18-21 crowd that I have actually gone BCD with, but I have had more than a couple of the over 30 crowd go BSC on me. One accused me of "looking for another SB" after she saw I had logged onto my account, another kept insisting I was her SD NOT her BF, but then got all clingy and jealous if my eyes were to wander when we were together. I have only had a handful of SB's over the age of 30, but in my (albeit limited) experience with the over 30 crowd, I have to say i have had a higher incidence of BSC behavior, not lesser than the really young ones.
Also, I have found the older they are, the more bills they have run up and the more money they need to keep the lights on. A college coed OTOH who's tuition is paid for either by student loans or Mommy and Daddy, only needs a bit of spending money to keep her happy as long as idiots, (who will remain unnamed in order to keep this board civil) don't start telling them how much money they could be making as full blown hookers. The younger they are, the less likely they are to have met some moron who has told them to reach for the stars
Well, to say it's been interesting would be an understatement by a lot.
What I've learned:
The international scammers are huge in numbers
All "private photos " I've seen...maybe 20...are nothing but face pics. Nothing erotic or revealing
Asking price and terms mean nothing. A little courteous nice guy conversation goes a long way
Except for the gigantic implanted LA bimbos. They think they deserve millions.
A little bit of weight, or couple kids at home and they are super affordable
Lots of real subs looking for daddy's. Interesting
Two employed nurses just looking to be taken out and have regular sex. One of them told me "you'd better know what you're doing "
A young one in the military with a one year old and three year old wanted to make sure I wouldn't propose to her on the second date like the last two guys. I'm thinking the sex must have been amazing but she's a baby factory lol
Meeting first one tomorrow. Looked her up on FB. She's legit.
To be continued. So far not too much work, lots,of potentials
Ok, when I'm wrong I'm wrong and admit it.
This IS a lot of work.
Met the first one, average in looks and body. Had a nice lunch at a high end restaurant.
Great time, excellent conversation and connection.
Then she disappeared.
The second one was clearly a pro. Even used one of the pro's photographers for her private photos
And doesn't even live here. "But I visit often from Vegas"
One admitted to being 58, sent intimate photos and if she's not over 70 I'm an aunt instead of an uncle.
Fortunately I've got you guys for advice so I'm continuing.
Time will tell.
I'm curious though..why are we NOT banging the 2 affordable nurses??
Both nurses have the flu.
It's going around here.
No expensive lunches or dinners. Coffee or a drink. I also try to get a full body pic. Especially if they have all head shots.
The last thing I want to do is buy some fatty lunch that misrepresented herself.
Full Body pic is a great idea. I met one SB who looked great on her profile..full breasts which I like and even had a relatively shapely torso/stomach. When we met in person though waist down was just way too big for me. I hadn't paid enough attention. All the pictures on her profile ended at the waist!
I’ve found that most lie about their age and weight. I had two recent SBs claim they were 24 and let slip that they were 28, like it really makes a difference? Even more common is underestimating their weight, sometimes significantly.
Actually, they lie about almost everything - lol
With the rare exception, I always: add +2 dress sizes, for the older ones +5 years, for photos -5 years.
What I don't like is when they forget they have a kiddo at home or a dominant girl/boyfriend/husband who is loaning them out for the evening.
Such is life in the bowl.
I’m also new in the sugar bowl. Here’s my first experience.... I found one stunningly beautiful blonde but she asked for 700/hr with 2 hr min. I politely declined and she was very nice about it and wished me good luck. The next one was a cute mixed race girl who had a very intriguing profile. We exchanged several messages before she stated her price was 400. When I tried to negotiate that down to 300 she became very hostile and said she normally gets 900/hr. Now I know that’s BS because even the pros here are only 300. Plus she was no where near the level of the first blonde. But why get so hostile, so I had to block her.
Then I found a very attractive 23 yr old brunette who was slim and just my type. She flirted just right and we agreed on a price. When she arrived she was even more attractive in person. So, I thought this could be a regular SB for me.... but then it went downhill. She had zero personality. And although her bbbj was good everything else was really not. She didn’t even pretend to be interested. So she was a one and done.
I’m texting with a few others now, one a girl next door blonde type and another who is Peruvian.
I’ll be curious to see how you guys do, I’ve got a lot to learn on how to deal with these young ones.
So far the Vegas pro at 500 looks best. She's older but definitely fitter.
Newest one is flight attendant for major airline. Big girl but more looking for action than focused on money. Probably means she's way bigger than her pics lol
..several regular posters here claim GREAT SUCCESS with Hott 20 y/o pussy !
Perhaps you might want to check the posts of some of the top 10 posters here and direct your questions about how to succeed specifically to them ? 😋
Great advice. And already did.
Unfortunately other than Mr F and two others our fellow hobbyists rarely reply
Ive seen this 20 yo columbian /italian mix several times. Very pretty with a world class ass. Fun in bed but 20 is a bit young for me.
So she said she wanted to dress up sexy and go out NYE. I said great but youre not 21. She said what are you talking about. Im 28. ........Now shes in my sweet spot. Im 59.
I’ve got a couple SBs that just want the action. Both about a 7 in looks on the TER scale but are freaky as hell. I’ve got another one who is my favorite but her long time former gf doesn’t appreciate me getting into her. The fav is a 9 on the TER scale and she fits sooo good. She’s been gone on the semester break I can’t wait to see her again. Tight, tasty, and game for whatever I want.
The really young students around here haven't been as agreeable.
Thought I had a deal cemented last night with 26 yo when she informed me that I needed to prepay her gas onVen Mo or it was a deal breaker.
Needless to say I'm not pre paying anything.
Seems like the 30-40 somethings are easier to deal with.
Might be because I'm in my 60s.
SB women in their late 20s and up are definitely easier to deal with. They may not have to lovely young virginal figures of teens and near-teens. However, they are more relaxed, better in bed, and offer up much less drama and immaturity than the young ones.
"some" women who are a bit older are easier to deal with, others are simply more experienced at scamming.
I have had some very young ones flat rock my world in bed and who only needed a pittance in allowance. So far I have had almost no BSC SB's in the 18-21 crowd that I have actually gone BCD with, but I have had more than a couple of the over 30 crowd go BSC on me. One accused me of "looking for another SB" after she saw I had logged onto my account, another kept insisting I was her SD NOT her BF, but then got all clingy and jealous if my eyes were to wander when we were together. I have only had a handful of SB's over the age of 30, but in my (albeit limited) experience with the over 30 crowd, I have to say i have had a higher incidence of BSC behavior, not lesser than the really young ones.
Also, I have found the older they are, the more bills they have run up and the more money they need to keep the lights on. A college coed OTOH who's tuition is paid for either by student loans or Mommy and Daddy, only needs a bit of spending money to keep her happy as long as idiots, (who will remain unnamed in order to keep this board civil) don't start telling them how much money they could be making as full blown hookers. The younger they are, the less likely they are to have met some moron who has told them to reach for the stars
I have found 23 to be the ideal SB age; teenagers, though fun, are skittish and inexperienced,
under drinking age can be inconvenient, and there seems to be a slight worldliness that creeps in to leaven the unbridled enthusiasm, as well as more experience with men (learning to tell the good ones from the bad apples) which is a good thing in my case.
Much over 23, the weight of their responsibilities, plus an accumulation of bad relationships, often leaves a trail of mistrust and bitterness; perhaps irrelevant, if you just want to pump and dump, but to develop a deeper intimacy more emotional pliability is helpful.
Actually some of the most appreciative SB's I have been with have been in the 26-30 range, just coming out of bad relationships and very sexually frustrated. I have had some of the best sex with these young women, I just love it when a hottie tells me "I haven't been fucked like that for years" and actually means it.
I don't see the young ones because they are my preference, I see them because I live in a rather small city of about 100,000 in population that has a college with an enrollment of over 10,000 students, many of them broke and cute. lol
You guys in more target rich environments have the luxury of filtering down to what you truly want, but with only a couple of hundred POT SBs as my starting point, I don't find myself passing on any of the 18-21 yr old hotties that make up most of the total pool in my area.
My sweet spot is 26-32 years old but who am I to say no when propositioned by a 21 y/o starving college student?!?
They are mostly 8-10 on the TER looks scale and rather than being bitter or jaded - they are simply curious and hungry for $$ and the thrill of being a little dirty.
These girls are generally $300-$500 for a very long "date". Whenever I am quoted an "hourly" price I just block (I come here for that). One of the things I like best about the SB is that these girls don't even own a clock much less with one...
Also, without exception, I have found these girls to be completely naive when it comes to how good - good sex can actually be...
I just love the OMG moment when a doe eyed college goddess loses her mind in the rack. These days I view it is not only my honour and privilege to show them - but as my duty...
The problem with S CA is it's like Vegas: they see MB, Lambos and Ferraris and think they should have one too. I don't plan on providing those luxuries.
The two colleges closest to me are predominantly Asian.
Have nothing against the culture but tiny and petite doesn't work for me.
I like boobs, butts and legs.
And frankly at my age I'm happiest with an hour or two.
Don't need romance or want to spend long afternoons with anyone.
I'm upfront with everyone. Don't want to waste their time or mine.
So far I can spend pleasant time with a couple,of thirty somethings for 300-350, the tall young flight attendant for $200. Assuming gifts and meals maybe 300.
The one thing that's obvious is that we all have different sweet spots.
Makes the world go round.
It's great to share these ideas and experiences
You can leave the 18-20 year olds as well as the petite, skinny Asians to me please.
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Agreed on the main point though; we each have our own sweet spot of age versus sugar versus type of interaction.
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This is probably the most subjective part of the SD world so I think it's useless to try to define a "standard" sweet spot or a predictable model. The only real indicator is how hard your dick gets when you think about BCD with a specific SB. I have zero interest in BCD with any SB over 40 or even 35. I've tried meet & greets and they all ended with me running, not walking, away. I have almost the same poor success with single-mothers, especially over 28. The ones I've met made it way too clear that they are only looking for Baby's ATM. Add to that their challenge in extended travel, typically post-baby baggy bodies (not all. but many), and their tendency to toss over random asks for $$$ for the kid (medical, clothes, sitter, birthday, legal, etc.) without even offering sugar and I'm just not going there again. Don't get me wrong, please. I think a single mother MUST put their kid(s) as their top priority. That's part of being a good parent. But I have no intention of paying for some other dick's "issue" (pun intended).
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For me, I've had the most success with 24-28 year olds, mostly black, Latina and white in that order. What I'd really like though is to penetrate (pun intended again) the 18-21 yea old petite Asian SB space. This has proven a challenge for me in my area (North Los Angeles County) perhaps due to lack of SB's in proximity, competition with bigger wallets, some sort of cultural issues (not a taboo against p4p, but a taboo for p4p for less than insane [over $500] amounts of sugar), or too much fat/age on me. Or, I suppose some mix of any/all of these.
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Previous posts have addressed the other side of the equation - number of POT SB's by age/type that contact or converse with SD's in their area. But at the end of the day, the math really looks more like calculating batting averages than scoring school tests. If you are batting .302 you are a major league hitter. But if your test score is 30.2% correct, you flunk.
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Batter up!
Herb,
You hit it out of the park
Funny how things turn around.
The POT I had lunch with just texted me.
Her car got repoed
Imagine that.
Last week she was holding out for more but this week it's " pick me up and take me to your place"
Desperate SBs concern me.