Whenever I see some POT SB says, "be blunt in your message," it means she doesn't want to message back and forth. Usually, they will give your her phone number and take it offline right away to discuss $. However, I always like to meet for a drink first to see if her pics are real and make sure she is not bat shit crazy. I also want to know what her rules are in bed. If she doesn't kiss or offer BBBJs (not GFE), I pass right away. I can get them from an escort so what's the point of seeing an SB if she doesn't offer them. At my age, I can only pop once a day so don't really need multiple hours anymore. We can have a nice meal for an hour and then go BCD for 90 minutes to 2 hours. Many SBs are fine with going straight to BCD after the M&G so 2 hours is more than enough for me.