So my SB search has yielded one solid SB, and a couple of interesting alternates. I expect to settle on one more fairly soon and then have to work on a rotation. Fortunately, my unicorn, among all her other charms, seems to be doing this as much for the sex and fun as the money, so as long as I do DATY to her approval and show her other fun stuff, she is not too hung up on how often we meet. Twice a month works and I seem to be able to deliver on the amusement and sexual pleasure so far.

I also have this list of what I will call B girls - ladies who are fun to fuck, are reasonably priced (300-350), low maintenance types. They are imperfect, either not as pretty as I like or a bit sad in one case, or simply not someone I want to hang out with a lot. But the sex is good, the price is right, and they are generally quite happy to have it just be sex and not much more. Unlike GaGa, my goal is only one meeting a week. That is enough. So I am likely to only see these women once a month or less. But I would like to have them on call.

Any suggestions on the best way to set their expectations low, while still keeping the communications open? I am thinking the best way to do it is to say something about how my situation has changed a bit, and I am not able to meet as often as I thought I could (if asked for more detail, I guess I would say either that business is down or my wife is saying things that make me think I need to be more careful). Then ask if it is okay to contact them when I can meet, and that I understand if that is not what they are looking for, so no problem if they just want to move on. My sense is that will mostly get a positive reply.

Is anyone else trying to do this, and if so, how have they done it and how does it work? GaGa, I know you do it, but you also see them a lot more than I will, you horn dog. I probably have too big a list anyway, and should focus on the SA hookers and TER providers as back ups, who should all be perfectly happy with this arrangement, but some of these other women are fun.

thanks in advance

zig

As I have begun to understand who I really want to see and how much individual SBs should charge, I am not accumulating them so much. If you are a chunky lady, medium in looks who asks for 600 per and I counter with 300, it is not likely we will work something out. So to some degree this is taking care of itself. But when the 300 lady comes along and asks for 300, I still go there. And if she makes me very happy, I may even go back.

Not walruses, mind you, but women who are not painful to look at, not too curvy, hopefully pleasant conversationalists and good in bed.

zig

Like you, I rarely date more than once a week.  For over a year I had my A girl who I adored and made sure to visit about every other week. That left the alternate weeks for a fairly large roster of B girls.  Some I only visited once every 6 weeks or even more infrequently than that. I told them the truth, well maybe shaded just a tiny bit, that my life was very busy and my schedule unpredictable but I'd love to see them as and when our two schedules permit.  It worked just fine.  

Now my former A girl has moved on.  Sigh, but that's life in the sugar bowl.  So I'm seeking a replacement.  I have 3 possibles in the rotation, but one lives too far away, one is kinda sad, and #3 is the best possibility.  I continue to interview candidates hoping to find another unicorn!