Ok, it's not as good as you think - and I really wish it was.

 
I had a 2-year arrangement with a AA babe a while back. I've posted about her in the past and won't rehash it now.  

 
But she had a stripper "friend" who she claimed was her bestie at the time. She even took me to see her at her local club and even let me know that her bestie had recruited my SB to dance a few times as well (but never when I was around).  

 
This bestie made it known that she was a serious ho, available for take home from the club for any guy with a 4-digit budget, and this club seemed to be adopted by several members of the Lakers BB club. So the stories rolled in of 5 or 6 players coming after a game, spending like the major ballers they were, and then inviting the bestie to round up 10-12 girls at the club to attend an all-night (and morning) fuck-fest at one of the player's homes. There were large stacks of cash provided to each girl ($10-15k) but there was not a single condom around (or allowed) for miles and miles.  My SB eventually told me she had attended "a few" of these parties as well.  To be fair, I was not particularly bothered by this, as I was already getting frequent tests and never had anything come up. Plus I really did not care what (or who) she did on her own time, as long as she tested frequently as well.    Ok, but the above is not the point of this post - it's just an interesting side topic...  

 
Now at one point, the SB and her friend came to my house. They wanted to go to Jamacia for a week for my SB's birthday and my SB asked me to cover the airfare - which I did.  Then my SB had a side chat with her friend and told me the bestie didn't have enough cash to pay for her ticket (the irony, right?). She wanted me to loan money to her friend, and presented a 4 week repayment plan. Ok, ok you are all screaming at me - I can hear it through your screen. But the no-loans rule was not really part of my DNA at that time. Note, did not ask for, nor was I offered any physical incentive by either of them. But since I considered the bestie butt-ugly (picture the Kim Kardashian or Snooki look, but exaggerated to Mad Magazine-level, with giant ass and giant boobs), I would have immediately declined to play.  

 
Ok, so I loaned her the cash. And when they got back from the trip, she actually made the first two payments - eventually. Then she ghosted me and my SB.  The remaining $350-ish became our little inside joke, and I wrote it off as lesson learned.  

 
Cut to today 5 years later. I am seeing the bestie on EVERY sugar site: Seeking, WYP, SLN, SDM, etc. She even messaged me on Seeking ("Hi") and did not (appear to) remember me. I have not replied.  

 
But should I? Should I reply, get her to text then present her past-due bill?  I probably won't of course. Don't need the grief.  

 
But the larger question is:  If you saw a friend (or relative, roommate, coworker, etc.) of a former SB, is she off limits? Or do expect that moving forward will have a higher-than-normal chance of success? In other words, does the "Bro's before ho's" rule apply in reverse to former or current SB's?  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat