Is anyone from Boston area or New England for that matter? How has your luck been on Seeking? Would like to talk either here or privately
Went back on and searched in Boston area and it was a complete waste of time. I see you guys in here with many successes, obviously your areas are better than this one.
All I ran into was girls wanting platonic only, online only, ridiculous asking prices, wanting to be paid for M+G poor attitudes, etc. Complete waste of time.
I have been on before and it was great, took some work but was worth it. Now it is a complete waste of time or it seems like that in this area. Sorry not giving 500+ to anyone on there, their GPS is through the roof!
Wants gifts bought before hand to get their attention, wants to be taken shopping wants an allowance from the start, wants to be paid for a M+G, all they talk about is what I can do for them WTF is going on?
So give it a few weeks and see what happens. I've actually done some math on this and I can assure you there are at least 1,000 women turning 18 EVERY DAY in your state. If only 1% of them sign up for Seeking your current "inventory" of active profiles will refresh quickly.
Also, take some time to reiew your failures and go back to their profiles and your message threads. Look for some common elements that appear often in the worst experiences and use them to yellow or red flag these when they appear in the next batch.
Finally, I recommend you NEVER look at any POT's wish list. Doing so triggers a message to the POT that you viewed their list and may set an expectation from her that you will be stupid enough to buy something for her.
I never look at their wish list. Many of them have it in their profile to send them something to get their attention or say it in a message back to me lol
Just a short year ago I was bemoaning how useless and annoying SA had become. All the problems you mentioned: GPS, platonic only, selling pics, etc, etc. But right now I'm absolutely deluged with beautiful, top notch, inexpensive pussy. I can hardly keep up. My last success story (posted recently) involved an amazingly sexual young woman who honestly seemed more eager to fuck and suck than I am! So hang in there friend, don't get too discouraged!
Just finished a month membership and for the first time had absolutely zero results with all the same issues OP had. I tried my mid-sized midwest city as well as two major metro areas in the Mid Atlantic area that I travel to for business. I was able to have just one M&G (that I drove over an hour for in desperation!) and while she was nice, she was clearly not using her own photo on her profile, the physical attraction wasn't there. What was a first were three that stood me up at the M&G; all confirmed an hour out they were coming then didn't show. One tried the empty gas tank send me money scam.
My last go-round a few months back netted a couple M&Gs and one that proceeded but didn't work out after a couple dates. The decline has been discussed in a few threads here and I think it is real. I don't know that I will re-join, especially with the re-branding, which seems to be an acknowledgement of the issues. They used to do a great job keeping the scammers off the site but now it's like every other dating/hookup site, 90% scam.
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