I apologize if this has already been discussed here. Does any one use the wish list other than reviewing the list to get an idea of the lady in the profile? If I see a wish list that is all 4K hand bags and shoes versus a wish list that  is mostly vibrators and butt plugs, it somewhat colors my perception of the POT.

I don't even look at the wishlist. lol

It's not about whether or not I am a pig (I am). The very idea that she expects a POT SD to buy her some useless luxury item to get her attention is one of the biggest red flags in the Sugar Bowl. It lines up right next to paid (I mean $+) M&G's "I know what I'm worth" declarations, and IG accounts with huge followings and mostly fashion shots.  

 
BTW: On the flip side, I never ask for access to private pics, either. If her public pics don't give me a reasonable expectation that she will look good naked, then I move on.  There's too may pic collectors around who ask for private pics then ghost the POT. I flip the script and focus on talking to her more intimately, rather than seeing her more intimately.  

 
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The Cat

Secret Benefits has a section for private pics that you have to pay for.  But as far as I know, they also have rules against nudity for those private pics.  So a complete waste of money.

Even the existence of a wish list is a bit of a turn-off for me, and they seem to be dominated by over-rated and over-priced alcohol (Crystal seems to come up often) and over-priced bling, like handbags.

If, after talking to her and getting to know her, she wants some bottles of nice red wine (I learned a lot about California  Cabernets and Merlots from a SB and her tastes in sparkling wine are classy but more practical) or a sex toy that she wants to use together, that is wonderful and I am happy to buy them for her. But that is something that comes up chatting at a nice restaurant or in pillow talk, not from a website. The girl into California wines and I did do her dream vacation together - a wine tour of Napa Valley - where she was a lovely and fun companion.

Anyway, her main request was that I bring her some bottled water and fresh fruit.  

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In the end (wish list device pun not intended), I just use it as another piece of data. Never data to sway a decision, but for other purposes. For example, one lady had a Penthouse book called Backdoor Fantasies on her list. This enabled me to broach the subject with her for a nice discussion of the topic.

Thanks again!