I know a lot of you guys have a sales background.  I've been talking with this POT who is on my unicorn list, 5'10", blonde, slim/fit,  21, cheerleader, almost a model (this is the dream girl or maybe a natural redhead)(hopefully good in the sack).  I was supposed to have a M&G with her this morning, but she gave appropriate notice that she really needed to study for a test later (which she had mentioned earlier there was a class in the evening.).

She is new to this (been on SA less than a month) and hasn't met anyone on the site yet.  In earlier messages I've mentioned an allowance range of 300-400 per date and that did get her initial interest.  Is there any good text language to use to kind of show that I'm actually very serious, that doesn't kind of weaken my position?  I'm sure she is getting bombarded by crazy/rude offers on SA (we are extremely local to one another, I think that was part of the appeal to her)  We are supposed to reschedule for tomorrow.

- I'm local, serious, will be generous (allowance) if we click, mid-30's in good shape.

I really can't think of anything you can say that will both show that you really want to see her that doesn't not in turn "weaken your position" other than sincerely telling her that you are disappointed that you can't see her, but that you understand her education is right now the most important thing in her life.

 
I would not suggest any "grand gestures" and would certainly avoid saying anything that could be construed as needy or clingy. Obviously leading off your message/s to her tomorrow by asking how her test went would go far to show that you care about her as a person (even if you don't lol) and that you aren't just pissed off because you didn't get to fuck her. You never want to be "that guy" especially when it's true. lol

Thanks!  I know it can be a delicate balance but that is exactly what I needed to hear, you can easily become clingy/needy quickly or grand gestures, offering $$$ for M&G (hell no lol).

I will try that late today (when she was supposed to get back to me) or tomorrow.  Don't want to spook the unicorn lol.

Sales background here.  The 1st one to talk loses.  If you need to reach out, let her know there are other POT SBs but you felt she should have the first chance.  Here's your line:  "come on baby let's close this deal and get to the fun!"  Let me know if you need me to come in from behind and get her done!! 😜

I looked it up in the Urban Dictionary and this is what it says,

P.O.T.sex
Post Orgasmic Torture. When a girl or guy continues to jerk or suck on a guy's dick after he orgasms when it's ultra-sensitive and thus feels like torture or when a girl or guy continues to use a vibrator or other sextoy or tongue on a girl's clit after she orgasms when it's ultra-sensitive and thus feels like torture. But torture of a good variety

Update:  I texted her late last night about her schedule today and how school is the most important.  However I saw her back on SA this morning and decided to hit her up there.  A couple hours later she blocked me on both.  Oh well, it was her real phone number.  It felt like a unicorn and it was.

Sorry to tell you - but you probably blew it.  

IF she was seriously interested and a newb to sugar, you correct response was to say something like:  "Completely understand how important your education is.  Stay focused on getting an A, please.  Maybe after the test we can celebrate your great results!" IF she is serious, she will appreciate your support. After all, that type of mentoring and support from a Daddy is part of what the newer SB's are expecting. This will separate you from the guys who just want to dip into pussy.    Now, if she doesn't follow up or reply to you next day message of "Hi. How did it go?"  (Note: do not mention rescheduling - let her bring it up), then she's probably moving on to a bigger wallet/better looking guy.  

IF she was just looking for time to shop her pussy around to other SD's and only had you on her B or C list, then nothing you could have said would make her more likely to actually meet.  

Always remember these communication guidelines:  

1. Be respectful supportive and empathetic that she's trying to make a better life(style).  
2. You are in no hurry to fuck her as you (also) want to build a long term arrangement.  (Even if you are desperate to fuck her and will probably dump her after.)  
3. Never lose your temper or let her motivate a negative reaction.  You are in control of your time, attention and money.  Bad news from her drives a thoughtful response from you - not a complaint, whine, criticism or rant.  
4. Once you have moved communication off the site, do not return unless she initiates or her other channel is not working (i.e.: you get a "number no longer working" message).  If you two are talking offline, do not ever mention you see her still active on the site. It means YOU are still active on the site and will make her think you are looking to bang multiple chicks - which you are.  

Remember that she is as motivated to get you on "her side" as you are to bang her so hard she won't even remember her "real" daddy. She wants to THINK you are looking for one, great SB, as she has told you she is looking for one, great SD.  Don't derail that train of thought.  Ultimately, YOU can always decide to drop her at any time YOU want.  But there are several past posts on here from me and others who have left the door open only to see a hot POT SB re-engage weeks or even months later. So don't burn any bridges.  

Send her a picture of the cash and only cash in hand without your face...followed with 🤷🏻‍♂️😜

You blew it! You should've done nothing. Let her come to you. You acted needy and stalkerish by texting her the night before and next morning..over pursuit..my best pot SB's have been when I've let them come to me after initial contact..even though we're paying them, you still gotta play by silly dating rules it seems..

In this context POT refers to a Potential Sugar Baby. The acronym we use is "POT SB" or just "POT."

I’ve done that.....let them know the cash they missed.  Funny thing they come back to Daddy.....hmmm I wonder why.

Good tips all around especially from GaGa and herbtcat.  I will definitely take these to heart especially for skittish unicorns!  Of course there are always more, had a successful M&G with cute GND grad student yesterday too and we are having brunch and fun on Sunday.  Much more straightforward!