My thanks to the LoveGoddess for all of her help over the last year.  

I have taken your advice both to my questions and the questions of other hobbyists and it has worked wonders for me.  

-  I have stopped self-servicing myself and when I orgasm with a woman now, it's that much better.  

-  I have reduced the amount of porn I watch and I noticed my appts have more enjoyment, instead of trying to live out a fantasy.  

-  I have allowed myself to relax and enjoy the moment and you know, the performance anxiety during greek I wrote you about is gone.  

-  I was one of numerous guys who asked about falling for a provider.  It took me a while to realize these women are very good at their jobs and nothing more.  I don't deny it doesn't happen, but I don't set myself up as easily as before.  

-  I still am not able to pop twice in an hour like when I first started hobbying, but since I stopped masterbating so often, I'm getting closer to it.  

-  I have tried various things to eleviate the severe sensitivity I used to get from oral sex.  One has seemed to work.  And though I still don't usually finish by oral alone, receiving head is a lot more enjoyable than before.  

You've really made me a happier person, LG.  Now if I can only force myself to follow your last piece of advice, losing weight and getting into shape, I dare to think I might actually return to the sexual being I was in my early 20's.  

Thanks again,
rns