One other thing to remember about people here, we have VERY long memories. Just saying...
I met my GF on SA and she's hot and sexy and cool. Lately I've been thinking how hot it would be to see her with another guy. I'm not a cuck in the least - I'm actually a bit dom with her. There's something about seeing other guys react to her and watching her flirt that's exciting for me. Thoughts about taking it to another level? I've been reading about anklets too - should I get her one?
I've thought long and hard about that. We have some good fantasy talk but she gets a little shy when I talk about another guy. Self-conscious. I wonder if I had a guy say hi and flirt and she saw I wasn't bothered that it might ease her mind. Very hot to think about
She must be pretty hot if other guys are reacting to her like you mention, however you still need to be careful... If she is self-conscious about herself or if she feels pressured or weird about you pushing her towards other guys, she may get turned off by you and end the relationship. Imo you should make it a very light-hearted fun conversation about a fantasy you have about her and see how she responds. It could take weeks or months to lay the groundwork for something like this if it's not something she would normally seek out in her own. The hard sell is NOT the move here and she will resent you for it if you do.
Make it about the fantasy and not that she's not enough for you by herself and give her some time to warm up to the idea. If you play the long game, it may work out for you. Also be careful though, because once you open the door for other guys, YOU may be the one who is not enough for HER, so think carefully and be careful what you wish for.
Good luck... and let me know if you need a third lmao ![]()
Thanks man.
And what are your stats??
Make it about the fantasy and not that she's not enough for you by herself and give her some time to warm up to the idea. If you play the long game, it may work out for you. Also be careful though, because once you open the door for other guys, YOU may be the one who is not enough for HER, so think carefully and be careful what you wish for.
Good luck... and let me know if you need a third lmao
Whats an anklet?
Dude, if you own the site, or if you are getting paid to shill for them, just man the fuck up and own your shit.
NOTHING you say from here on out is going to be taken seriously unless you FESS UP.
You've already been called out for it before, and now I am calling you out. If you have no connection to strikeups.com why the link???
A word of advice here, TER members HATE to be lied to, calling out liars and thieves was the very reason this site was created and I am flat out calling you a LIAR and that you are here with ulterior motives.
This guy has done nothing but bash SA right from the outset, make nefarious claims about fakes and flakes on SA all the while talking up StrikeUp.
At the very least, I put some fcuking time and effort into my fake profiles in order to gather some intel so that it wouldn't just be farting out of BassTheRat51's arse ![]()
but you have to admit, when I call someone out, I usually pull out all the stops.
As for our strikeups shill, did he really think he could link the site to his post, just like the hookers do with their when they post and NO ONE would notice and call his punk lying ass out for the liar he is?
Damn. My threat has been hijacked. Well I found a guy online who's will to make a smooth approach without her knowing it was set up by me
As for our strikeups shill, did he really think he could link the site to his post, just like the hookers do with their when they post and NO ONE would notice and call his punk lying ass out for the liar he is?
Sorry to hijack your thread, but what I said needed saying.
Hi. At least I wasnt shilling about SugarInsiders.com! In truth THAT would have been a travesty...
NOTHING you say from here on out is going to be taken seriously unless you FESS UP.
You've already been called out for it before, and now I am calling you out. If you have no connection to strikeups.com why the link???
A word of advice here, TER members HATE to be lied to, calling out liars and thieves was the very reason this site was created and I am flat out calling you a LIAR and that you are here with ulterior motives.
Either way, your credibility is shot here, but I am curious. Not that I expect the truth of course.
Created both of them. After hearing so many from both genders complaing about SA and the others I decided to make my own. Its free and costing me money hut I enjoy the side project and who knows - maybe it will grow. Got 2500 - in the last 2 months - members so far - mostly from nyc to philly...
I would still like to know what an anklet is....
Now that you have "come clean" I will stop calling you a liar.
As for your site, "if" it ever gets more than a couple of members in my state, I will consider signing up myself. Until then it simply is not worth the effort. If you had been honest from the beginning and simply stated that you had started a free site and were trying to create a bit of a buzz about it, I most likely would have not only signed up personally, but could have been a cheerleader.
One thing you will find about TERmites. we absolutely HATE to be lied to, and we can sniff out a fraud or a liar from a thousand miles away. I would suggest a sincere apology to the board for your deception and a promise to do better in the future if you don't want to be treated like a pariah here.
One other thing to remember about people here, we have VERY long memories. Just saying...
Well thank you for your most gracious gesture about calling me a liar. However I never did lie. I merely brought up the fact that free sugar sites are just as good as SA - assuming the population is there for one's area. The members for my site - from nyc to philly are constantly lauding me with thanks and praise lol. Of course that would end in an instant were I to start charging!
And the perks! The SBs all think im some sort of bill gates/brandon wade rock god lol (well some of them at least). The free offers to meet and "hangout" more than offset the cost of running the damned thing.
Its an unfolding adventure - if anyone is interested I can post regularly with a play-by-play. If not well, I have my own forum similar to this one that is also growing daily and I can trumpet my stories there.
Thanks for listening and I hope to contribute more if you all will have me. If I am truly an outcast then I shall fade away like the setting sun.
As for your site, "if" it ever gets more than a couple of members in my state, I will consider signing up myself. Until then it simply is not worth the effort. If you had been honest from the beginning and simply stated that you had started a free site and were trying to create a bit of a buzz about it, I most likely would have not only signed up personally, but could have been a cheerleader.
One thing you will find about TERmites. we absolutely HATE to be lied to, and we can sniff out a fraud or a liar from a thousand miles away. I would suggest a sincere apology to the board for your deception and a promise to do better in the future if you don't want to be treated like a pariah here.
One other thing to remember about people here, we have VERY long memories. Just saying...
One other thing to remember about people here, we have VERY long memories. Just saying...
Personal spam notwithstanding, I'd still like to know what an anklet is in this context.
The only level you should take it to next is to find out if it appeals to her. If it does, then you can talk about making fantasies come true. If not, drop it. You never know what's going to turn someone on or turn them off. I had a SB last year who's big fantasy was being on her knees sucking one guy's cock while getting plowed from behind by another. She was a bit hesitant to tell me this since she didn't know how I'd react. I was sorry that arrangement ended before I could have that experience with her.