We have been pretty negative on what's out there. Figured I'd talk about what I saw that led to some of my successes.
In her profile
1. A paragraph or two. Nothing too crazy detailed or blank. Enough to say a bit about why she's here and what she expects.
2. Most pics are selfies with generic background. No extravagant vacations. Almost always one bikini or lingerie pic
3. Where she's from, one did move here from another country which is usually a bad sign but it has worked out
4. NSA, monogamous, open relationship, and her current relationship status. Important to make sure this is consistent with the opening messages/ texts
In text
1. Willing to video chat or talk on the phone right away
2. Open to meet for coffee with no allowance expectations. Especially if you live close
3. Will say what she's really looking for, allowance, frequency, and what she's open to sexually right away
4. Willing to discuss sex and dating.
5. Has limits. Damn near every scam has been 'no limits' or 'just don't film me'. Most girls say no anal and want condoms. Others say, they kind of like anal but want to get to know me. Some will do no BJ's. At that point I'm out
6. Will talk allowance and understand they aren't getting it till the end of the date. If it's a point of contention I don't budge. I offer a video call. If they don't feel comfortable with me after that we aren't a match
7. Will say how often they want to text. Some girls are daily, others a few times a week and mostly to confirm the next date
8. Talks about work, school, family, and goals most importantly. If she just is looking to survive and make rent shes probably a scam or may try to rob you or simp you into more money
M&G
1. She dresses up. I also look sharp for her and do want her to enjoy me too
2. Doesn't mind Starbucks or any old coffee shop.
3. Only orders a drink or asks if it's ok to get a snack too. If she hungry I'm fine, I'm just not gonna want to drop $30 on candy for her
4. Chemistry. Can't stress this enough. This is casual dating. You gotta like talking to her
5. Is not on her phone the entire time
6. Respects your life. If you have kids, a career, family.
7. Knows her schedule and yours to coordinate dates