This is one of the reasons why we see so many POT SB profiles with complaints about creeps and time wasters... On my unpaid, "research" SB profile I received this message today:  

 
"Hi beautiful my husband and I are looking for another woman to join us in bed and we were hoping you would be interested in having a three some, we understand this is a bit direct but why not just be straight forward from the start? We are just looking for someone fun possibly consistent, if this is not for you we understand. I also don't mind sharing my man on weekends when I'm gone no drama as long as he can send me videos of him fucking you 🥰 it's my kink. You are very pretty and We Hope to hear back from you😘"

 
The About Me section text:  
"I'm bi my husband is straight and we are looking for another woman to join us in bed. My husband and I do not play without each other we are not interested in another male or another couple unless they are both female. We do not pay to play just looking for someone fun and open minded Los Angeles Inglewood area we host only."  

 
The couple has a stated net worth of $250k and an income of $100k.  Oh and they have 5 kids.  He is 31.  The first three pics are couple shots, the 3rd pic is the guy naked with a rather long sock puppet sock over his junk. In two of the pics, he's not wearing a shirt.  

 
This is just embarrassing - for them - and for any would be legit SD on the site.  

 
So let's recap:  
- You have to fuck both of them - but get no sugar.
- You can fuck him alone - but must agree to be video taped (and presumably, they can sell the vids?) - but no sugar.
- They are LA-poor and want the full Sugar Bowl life - but won't pay sugar.
- The guy and his wife appear to be unwilling, unable or totally ignorant about the concept of birth control - and who's gonna pay child support if he knocks up a SB? Not these two, they're broke.  

 
 
Maybe this is normal for a swingers site like fetlife.com. But in the sugar world, I think it's just creepy.  

 

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The Cat

In your guise as a SB you could gently or roughly, depending on your mood at the time, inform them that this is a SUGAR dating website!  To a SD/SM sugar means pussy.  To a SB sugar means money. If they won't pay to play they have no business posting on SA. Creepy indeed!

I actually thought about it... for a minute.  

 
But I want to fly this profile under the radar. Don't really want extra attention.  

 
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The Cat

Well, I am sure there much worse "creeps and time wasters" out there. Especially the creeps. Have you seen any of the discussions on U S A s e x guide?  lol

I have. And it helps me make sure I know what NOT to do.  

 
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The Cat

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