Followup, especially if she is younger. Gotta remember, we're talking about short attention span millennials a lot of the time. Even if it isn't that, maybe she is just considering her options, which is her right, and she may be interested when you circle back around showing you are legit about meeting and all that.
Unless she's trying to scam you or harassing you to do things you don't want to do. Blocking will be perceived as "punitive" and will only ensure you will NEVER get to convert to BCD time.
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Maybe she's overwhelmed with SD messages. Maybe she likes you but she needs time to actually commit to the sugar life and so she's not ready to reply yet. Maybe she got a huge offer and will need to look at it before she realizes that it's probably a salt daddy who's never going to pay her. Maybe her Mom got sick and she's dealing with that. Maybe she lost her phone (happens A LOT to women under 30) and hasn't got the cash to get a new one yet (Ironic, isn't it? She can't get the cash for a new phone without a SD, and she can't get a SD without a phone!).
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The possibilities are endless. My recomnendation is just leave it alone for now. Over some time she will either write you off and won't contact you, or she'll come back for another look and you'll bubble up to the top of her POT list. Might be OK to send a short "Hi, how are you" note. But stay away from "are you interested or not"questions or statements. If she's interested, she'll tell you.
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I've used this "soft sell" technique more than once to turn an otherwise "maybe" into a meet & greet. Just engage her with general convo. Open ended questions like "how's it going?" or "any luck yet?" will draw her into a conversation with you. That sets the stage for a message like "sounds like you've been handling a lot! Maybe we should grab a cup of coffee and compare notes? LOL"
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If you are really worried about your private pics being "shared" or used to blackmail you, you've already triggered that risk. If she was going to do that, it would probably have happned within minutes of getting access.
Only remove access to images when they tell you they’re not interested or if you’re just gonna let it fizzle out. I’ve had a few BCDs come out of doing what herbtcat said. When I’m really interested, I will ping every few days I see that she’s on. Never pressuring them, just making small talk. Honestly, most of our messages just get buried. I get too many messages as a daddy, so the hot sugar babies probably have it worse.
depends on how good their profile is and if I am interested. Get lots of requests to view, some local, and some long distances away, even out of country. Some of the younger ones seem uncertain of the next move. So many new girls coming on here every day, and not sure what this site is about.
If I don't get a reply as quickly as I'd like, I am persistent, but not insistent. Demanding replies or commitment gets you no where. But suggesting, being open minded and coaxing her to make the decision you desire is often very successful. I wouldn't blocked anyone unless they are seriously a scamming, bsc, evil person. But when I do get a negative response, or they make it clear they won't have sex or insist on an unrealistic allowance I move the conversation to the SA Archive box. That way my inbox is relatively fresh. I can always move the conversation out of archive and back into Inbox if they change their mind.
As for how persistent you should be, noting all the good reasons already stated for why she might not be replying quickly, I usually send a few more messages within a week or two and then taper off to one a month, one every 3 months, etc. But obviously I only do this if she's so damn hot I don't want to lose all hope of meeting her if there's the slightest shred of a chance. Obviously the two other things that influence my decision are if she keeps her profile active and if she returns to the site recently or not.
I've had remarkable success with this type of persistence. One of the hottest and sweetest Sugar arrangements I have right now is with a lovely 22 yo blond I've been dating for a year. But our first coffee date did not take place until two years after I first sent her a message on SA. It took her that long to figure out she was ready for this, and when she did, she turned to me since I'd been so nice to her for so long. Persistence pays off!
