This is one of those situations where it is normal to contemplate revenge, but probably best to leave it in your "thought" universe. It's good advice above. My years in the P4P world have taught me never to create my own red flags --"what could possible go wrong?" If the answer is "a lot", then let it go.
So guys, lets hear the creative ways to extract payback on a serial cash and dash girl, she grabbed cash from me and literally sprinted out of the house, it was not in a hidden location, yeah I know... Anyways, come to find out it's her MO chat and get you in less clothes than you're willing to chase after her in and she bolts grabbing cash as she heads to a running waiting car..I have seen her profile on at least two sites now SA and SDM and know of at least 4 others she's done this too as well..I now have her chatting away about meeting and I want to have the last laugh..no harm to her, except a highly elevated pulse rate..her accomplice well, if it's a he...he's fair game for whatever he decides it's gonna be. I've had this happen one other time in a threesome situation, one grabbed the cash and went to smoke during a break while the other had me soundly in her throat until the car was cranked and waiting..I got them back in a glorious manner, and this one would be great to do something similar...but gotta watch those pesky laws about holding a hostage and all that..give me some LEGAL but possibly effective ways to go about this.
It certainly stings to get taken for a handful of cash, especially when you are sans all clothes except boxers and socks. It's a risk we all take and far too many have felt that sting for themselves.
But on this board, we tend to discuss methods of avoiding the sting. One idea is to never place the cash in the open. If she insists, you can offer half before and half after. If she still refuses, the smart move to thank her and ask her to leave. Of course, pre-BCD vetting can help ensure you have a high likelihood she's legit before you get to your room.
Deliberately attracting a ROB who has a known record of theft will greatly increase the danger of not only getting robbed, but of much more dire results, like a BF with a gun. That is not an outcome any of us want.
In my opinion, it's better to decline to meet citing some innocuous reason like "not feeling the vibes", etc. I suggest not telling her the real reason, as you do not want to "train" her on how to better fool the next guy.
This is one of those situations where it is normal to contemplate revenge, but probably best to leave it in your "thought" universe. It's good advice above. My years in the P4P world have taught me never to create my own red flags --"what could possible go wrong?" If the answer is "a lot", then let it go.
I agree. The best revenge is to make sure she can't repeat this as much as possible. Dating and sugar apps don't want their reputation being destroyed by women like this so they will help police it.
Slightly different circumstance and with someone I had successfully hooked up with once, so I thought there was trust.
At her request I foolishly gave her the PPM at dinner and as we left the restaurant she said, "have a nice night" and calmly walked away. I ever so briefly considered yelling and running after her but quickly thought better of it. Who knows what would have happened on a busy DTLA street? Sometimes there are sunk costs in this realm.
Happened to me last month. I had some bad vibes but was thinking with yhe wrong head. Enough so that I told a fellow monger I was gonna do the half and half. She refused. Should have stopped there. I reported her as well as a few other guys on the site
On Seeking...Memphis Grace on SDM, She is in the Atlanta market. I've been contatcted by at least 2 others she has done the exact same thing with..I'm not the kind of person who is going to risk a run in with the law, but I am the worst kind of nightmare you can have if I know just a tiny bit of personal info. I also am a firm believer in the fact that criminals will NOT call the authorities if I do confront them in person...She won't have the slightest idea something is going to happen, she is way too confident in her ability at this point.
Reporting her has done nothing to stop her as she just creates a new profile a couple of days later. As I stated, this will not be the first time I've set a thief up, I'm going to make 100% sure I control every aspect before I do whatever I come up with.
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