I had made a decision to be monogamous with my SB, but you know, can't help checking the SB sites periodically for fun. Well, last week I found a SB who I thought would be interesting. Older, 50's , hot bod, no wrinkles (gym rat so everything tight). Fascinating M&G where we started out talking as if we were dating then moved progressively to intimate talk. At some point we agreed on an amount (reasonable amount) and then the kissing started. Whew! Followed with sincere excitement on her part via text. We will be meeting soon for BCD and based on what we discussed, it should be a wild one. Then I came across a 23 year old who sounds like a BnB. She's coming over this Friday. I really didn't intend to load up on them but hey I'm not going to refuse. I think this may be the universe letting me know that my #1 SB, as much as I like her, is not all that I should be experiencing. I did get myself stuck a bit due to my own excitement. There is a fantastic EDM festival happening in October which my SB turned me on to. All my fav DJs so I got us tix and accommodation. So technically I am stuck with her until October, though it's not a painful thought. Just some good calendar management needed. As herb says "Life is Good!"

Don't sweat your change of heat (not a typo. LOL). You wouldn't be a Sugar Daddy if all you wanted was a monogamous relationship.    

 
The only outlier I see here is an "older 50's" SB. And if she makes your dick hard, then for goodness sake, bang away!  One of my Asian Porn Star SB's just turned 40.  Like your new SB, her body is still banging due to relentless workout discipline and diet control. She is still shooting scenes regularly, but now mostly as a MILF rather than the sexy secretary or naughty college student.  

 
The EDM festival is definitely not my scene. But I'll bet good money that you will be overwhelmed by young, sweet scantily dressed eye candy without even having to take Molly with your date. LOL   Now if your SB is bi - the opportunities could be amazing.  Maybe a good idea to book a hotel room with 2 king size beds and a breakfast buffet just in case.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

In my 10 yeas plus of sugaring, the ones that really sold the story of how naughty they are rend to under deliver.

Yes, very interesting about the gal in her 50s. She is interested in taking things romantic if all goes well, which really means supporting her. If we were to hit it off emotionally then that brings up a whole thing about how to switch from trad sugaring to romance. She and I both agreed we would not want to live together so it would mean designing a relationship. Anyway that's way, way down the road. But it is interesting that tangentially I have been vanilla dating (which has been hilarious.) What's got me quite intrigued is the 23 y/o who appears to be a student (aren't they all lol!). She's a hot little thing and I am hoping that when we do go BCD that she doesn't do the starfish thing. I love older women because they are experienced and expert at all the lovely little things that drive me crazy. (My #1 is 40 and she's figured it out.) This is why I stayed away from banging 20 year olds because they were so dull in bed and I just didn't have the patience to teach them everything. Maybe this one will be different.

As for the festival. We didn't have any luck finding someone at Coachella but maybe this next one will be different.

Ive found the 40+ to be bitter and delusional.  Im 68. Sweet spot is 27 to 40

I hear you Symp, certainly a hazard of age. Based on the one M&G she showed style and talent in our petting and knew exactly how to get my motor running. Sometimes that's a warning sign, as you say Symp, she could end up actually being a dud. Or worse, an expert manipulator. It's so hard to predict chemistry in bed. I guess you could say I'm not an ageist re sugaring (except for the 20 somethings who often are comatose in bed or incompetent technically). Again , we'll see on my 20 y/o. I do think 30's are the sweet spot. My current #1 was 36 when I met her. Perfect mix of maturity and technical expertise.

Symp 😂😂