So I've been talking to a married SB.  She said her husband knows she is on the site and wants her to be able to go out and have some fun.  She claims they don't have any money for anything fun and spend everything on their kids.  She said its time for her to go out and have fun.

She says hubby will be watching the kids when she goes out.  Her ad does not say no sex.

I'm trying to figure this one out.  I messaged her and asked if we liked each other if she would be open to kissing.  Then I said I was trying to understand if it would be a date or if it would be like two buddies hanging out.  Haven't heard back from her yet.

Seems a bit odd with hubby knowing what is going on.  I want to fuck...so not looking to just hang out.  What is your take on the situation?

Maybe she told the hubby that there's a site populated with old geezers who can't get it up any more and that they just like to take out hot babes as arm candy and perhaps the husband is top much of a doofus to know any better. Haven't you seen ever some of these "husband" types?

Or maybe the husband just enjoys being a cuckold and he gets off on that shyte when the wife reports back as to how solidly she was fcuked by a "Daddy". I've known of one or two providers' husbands (in the past) who were spineless supplicating excuse of a man who had to put their wives out there to make a living for the whole family.

Or, or maybe she's under some serious delusion that old geezers actually pay to watch and not to play. But no matter as to what, you are the customer and therefore you set the rules. For fark's sake don't say, "can I kiss you?". Just learn to express in no uncertain term that you are seeking intimacy if there's going to be chemistry. It is really this simple, i.e no intimacy = no allowance and if you just want hangout and be friend zoned, then that's on you!

My assumption would be that sex would be on the table, and if it's not, "no intimacy=no allowance" just like you said.

It sounds like either she isn't getting enough dick at home, or enough money, or most likely BOTH.

My advice is that if everything else about her attracts you, go for it. I am sure there are a LOT of both married girls and SB's with SO's, she is just being a bit more open about it, Perhaps she does this to keep the "clingy" guys away.

Ive got 2 married ladies in my rotation. Both getting divorced. Both just want cock. No money. Another wtf moment.

Hey hommie! So long as you get it for free and are prepared to entertain 'em and provide a sanctuary for them to kick back and get some c*ck to filling their p*ssies, then who cares or hookers?

She wanted cock, but needed a little bit of help. I am convinced she needed the cock a lot more than the money as she rarely asked me for money and the amounts she asked me for were rather paltry when she did ask.

She is the one who's ex husband called me pretending to be her boyfriend, the one where Z naturally and wrongly assumed it was all a scam to get my money. I probably saw her thirty plus times over a course of a few months and I doubt that I gave her more than a couple of grand total.  

You might relate to this one, Remember the Madonna song "Like a Virgin" "touched for the very first time" Well that's how she reacted to my touch, I guess nine years of lousy, unfulfilling sex will do that to a woman. The slightest, softest touch would send her body into spasms. I don't think I ever felt so "studly" lol

You should be more direct.  Tell her you are an unabashed enthusiast sexually and hope she is too.

This Caucasian woman in her mid 30's liked me and was eager to meet me.    She said just like your case, married but had partial hysterectomy, has two kids and hubby was laid off recently.    Her marketing point was due to her surgery she cannot get pregnant and I can fuck her and blow everything inside her pussy!    I let it go because she may be doing this with who knows how many SDs.

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Haha. Marketing point. Love it.

No kissing, No Date!