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The Erotic Highway

The Idiot has returned.
herbtcat 6 Reviews 718 reads
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I've been back from my 7-week trip to Thailand and Indonesia for about 10 days.  Not going to write a long, complicated travel log here. But I'll give you all the Sugar Dating-related highlights:  

 
I got home last Tuesday, 5/6. Overall, the trip was a series of mixed success, with some issues encountered along the way.  

The best part was the 4 dates I had with this cute, 21-yr old college student from Seeking in Jakarta. Some of the best sex I've ever had and she's a sweet, caring submissive girl who can suck like the world will end if she doesn't swallow my nut. Note: she did - twice (and 2xCIP), and it didn't!  

 
The cost of all 4 dates was less than one BCD in the US! She was one of three girls I dated from Seeking. Sadly, the other 2 were nothing special.  

Finding and meeting POT's in Jakarta and Bali was ridiculously simple. You or she favorites, send a message with your text number, negotiate by text for what you want - be explicit - and agree on allowance. I encountered zero scammers, pay me first BS, or catfishing.  

The only challenge, especially in Bali, was a few who 3x or 4x average allowance asks. Average was about $115, BTW.  My first POT in Bali asked for $475 for one hour. I attribute this to the tourist nature of Bali, where single men who visit are typically not experienced SD's and see themselves as "weekend millionaires" who pay comparable rates in their home countries for top-shelf hookers.  

Finally, it was hard to find a POT who wasn't attractive - they were almost all at least a 7, and mostly 8's and 9's (in my opinion, of course).    

The worst parts of my travel experience were weather (hot, humid), the food (never had to take so much Imodium before), and the boredom between dates. Language wasn't really a serious problem in Thailand or Indonesia (thanks to Google Translate). The climate just sucked the strength out of me, and going to see some statue or monument in 95F heat and 75% humidity was a non-starter.  

 
Will I go back: No.  

 
Now that I am home, I'm taking a break. My #1 SB that was not able to meet me in Bali is still in legal trouble in Turkey and I'm in no hurry to start a new search.  That leaves my A-List roster empty for now, while I still have 3 or 4 on my B-List for when I get the itch.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

herbtcat60 reads

Catching up on old posts...  

 
Yes. I brought back both of my kidneys. LOL!  

 
Your concern for me is touching, my friends.  :)  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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BdrmFun4863 reads

Good to see you back safe and sound and with both kidneys intact! Congrats on your scores and hope the trip was well worth the struggles!

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herbtcat68 reads

I just said I am taking a break... for a while. Well, that lasted about a day.  

 
I was noodling around with the new weight settings on profiles and as part of my testing, I wanted to see if there was a difference in what shows on a POT's profile before and after sending a message.  So, I sent a quick note to a local POT who joined on May 10. It turns out there is no difference with the weight field display. But that's not the point.  

 
This morning, she answered and said all the right things to make me feel like she's a viable POT.  Of course, we swapped text numbers and now I have a M&G with her at 10:00 am tomorrow.  

 
Asian, 5'1", slim (100-110 lbs.) and local to me (7 miles). Relatively new to LA and says she hasn't had an arrangement in LA yet.  No red flags so far.  

 
Guess my break is over. LOL Still, I will slow play this one. I get the feeling she is looking for feels as well as allowance  
 (as am I!) and would balk at any SD who pushes hard for a quick BnB. Assuming the M&G goes well, I will suggest a platonic dinner date or two so we can ensure mutual comfort and affection. I don't plan on even mentioning any specific (BCD) expectations until our 2nd date. But that could change, and I'll play it by ear as needed,  

 
Yes, I know...you are shouting at me that I am thinking with my dick again.  But that's kind of the point of the Sugar Bowel, isn't it? :p  

 
Life is good,  

 
The Cat

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sweetman49 reads

So good to have you back Herb!  You've been missed!

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SinCitySinner44 reads

When you first posted on the Erotic Highway I had zero idea of Thailand scene.  I ignorantly used to associate it with hooking up with lady boys.  

 
But since your post, I really have dived balls deep in researching Thailand scene...  I have even picked up some simple Thai phrases and can't wait for my first adventure next year..

 
Did you get any chance to go to GoGo bars in Nana Plaza. Soi Cowboy... Did you get any soapy massages or visit the notorious PIMP ?  Would like to hear more about your mongering in Thailand's Red Light district.  

 
Also you are correct about heat exhaustion. Based on the research the best time to visit in Nov, Dec, and Jan.

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herbtcat50 reads

Thanks for your reply, SCS.  

 
I'm not planning on posting an extensive trip report on Thailand here since I didn't do any sugaring in Bangkok or Pattaya.  

 
But yes, I did go to GoGo bars, Massage Spas, and more in those cities - with mixed results. If you have been researching on forums and YouTube, you have a fairly accurate picture of expectations.  For me, I won't be returning. Really enjoying (consuming) all that Thailand has to offer requires a level of energy an overall fitness that I don't have.

 
The best general advice I can give you is don't stay too long - 10-14 days is plenty. And don't leave too soon - stay at least 4-6 days. That will give you enough time to figure out what experiences you like the most and to repeat them a few times.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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