Secret Benefits, mostly a scam imo, you buy tokens and have to use one for every initial convo, which leads to lots of initial messages (or replies to their initial message that you can't see) only to never hear from again. I spent a good couple hundred on tokens and not one single meet&greet.
Whatsyourprice, mostly women that want to get free/paid dinner dates, imo. I had LOTS of offers for dinner dates after 3 or 4 months on here, went on a bunch of M&Gs, and only had one BCD, and that compared to what I am getting for quality and price now on SA, not even close.
Mintedbaby.com, free, that's the only benefit, bit's mostly women that want to sell pics, snap access, blah blah, selection is tiny anyway.
Some of the others are full on scams, same website but different names (can't remember which two, but it was two totally different sites, but when I joined both, it was same profiles), profiles with different pictures but exact same text as other profiles (so BS fakes likely), etc.
Compared to SA, not even in same ballpark, so many more options and much better hit rate.
I have been on WYP (whatsyourprice.com) for two years and met at least a dozen women. Most of them as the other poster described are professional daters who only want to get paid for dining out. I went BCD with only two of themselves far. The first one found a better and steadier deal (I think) so she quit on me. She was cute but only so-so in the sack so it was no big deal.
I got lucky with the second one and patience does have its own virtue. She is easily TER 9 in looks; 24, dirty blonde hair, a very pretty face, tall and slim (the only negative is she is flat-chested for a boob man like yours truly). We had a M&G back in October. At the time, she told me she wasn’t quite ready for intimacy so I thought she was just another professional dater. Still I kept texting her once in a while to say hello, how are you and she always replied so I knew she was keeping me as an option.
Finally, she texted me last month and asked me if I still wanted to go BCD. I said sure. I assume she probably needs money desperately but who cares. We agreed on the gift and have met twice since. This girl is absolutely dynamite in the sack! Better than most of the pros I have met and I have met a lot of highly-skilled pros. She seemed to love sex and I was the one who had to stop because I had to go home to my SO. Otherwise, we could have gone on much longer.
I just had a M&G with a 23-year-old girl from Slovakia. She is a spinner with a gorgeous face. She goes to college and works as a nanny. We already agreed on the gift. She is less expensive than American girls so it is a good deal. European girls usually are a better deal IMO. We will have our first BCD after she comes back from her trip to Costa Rica with the family she nannies for.
SA is by far the best site but I would try WYP if you live in a big city. Just make sure to make it clear in your message that you expect intimacy after the first date if the “chemistry” is right. Some girls might get turned off by this but you definitely save time and money to be clear upfront.
