I have stayed away from this world because of an impression that it becomes a huge time commitment, and that most of the action is for needy SBs in their 20s. I have gotten just too old to deal with that drama. So the question is: is it realistic to find SBs in their 40s on SA who, while needy, may be doing it more for the extras they would enjoy in life, as opposed to making the car payment just as the tow truck arrives? Or the rent before the eviction notice gets served? Any perspectives on fishing in the older pools of SA (or another site if there is one for the older set) would be greatly appreciated.
While I may be considered young by some of you (49), I have dipped in the over 40 pool of SB's a time or 2, my experience with it has been that they damn sure know what they're doing in bed, mostly have their shit together, and don't flake out as often...They don't seem to get as much attention as the young college aged SB's with the perfect ass and strappy bikini pics...
I have tried the more mature route. Some may be more secure financialy (not many) but there seems to be more BSC ones in yhe older set. Besides I've really hotten used to the asses on the 20 somethings. Alas even the in shape older ladies will lose to gravity.
I'm just over 70 and I've played in the Sugar Bowl for over 8 yrs and met hundreds of SB's of all ages. The best connections and overall satisfying arrangements ( some lasting for several yrs ) have been with ladies over 40. Occasionally I've met a late 20's-early 30's lady that was worth repeating with but those have been very few and far between....and even those have had their less than desirable complications I've also spent countless hours/days of wasted time chasing young 20 somethings and also fucked more of them than I care to remember but there was rarely anything special about those experiences ...so over the yrs I've learned to limit my time and efforts to more mature women. There are BSC older SB's also but in my experience, the odds are just a LOT BETTER with more mature women of finding the kind of connection I'm looking for...and BTW, in general I have found the same to be true with pro escorts...again with some notable exceptions
Even at age 58 I feel any woman over forty should be paying me. lol
I will confess I have seen three SBs in their late thirties and I enjoyed my time with all three. One of them I am still seeing. I have yet to see any SB's over forty and I am sure I will be at least your age before doing so.
Some of you guys just prefer the "old broads" but others of us still want the young hard bodies.
Agreed. I have tried 4 or 5 times over the years with women between 35 and 45. Only decided to take one BCD because she was Asian, hot and she really wanted to convince me to take her on one of my international vacations. I didn't. Ended up taking a 26 year old Vietnamese casino dealer.
The rest were all way too overloaded with baggage from ex's, kids, religion, etc. One Eastern European woman even had the balls to tell me I should stop TRYING to have sex with younger girls (like she didn't believe I had any success banging 18-24 yr olds) and "settle down" with someone serious. I got up to pee, paid the bill and left out the back of the restaurant.
There's just nothing so sweet as seeing an 18 year old teen with perky tits, long hair and a 20 inch waist chow down on my dick with that hungry, cum-swallowing look in her eyes.
When I was in my 50"s I had the same perspective as you about dating women over 40...NO WAY was I interested...but time changes EVERYTHING sooner or later and most of us " more mature gents" find that the young 20's girls just really are not into fucking us old geezers and rocking our world anymore 😂
but for me, a woman in her mid 30's to her late 40's are my unicorns. Just can't seem to find that many on SA. I will even drive a couple of hours to check them out. So far, in my limited SA experiences the only fucks I've gotten were from 20 somethings that were either uptight/nervous or weren't into 60+ guys. The sex was well, sex. Yes, I got to fuck them, but I would much rather have an older woman that knows how to fuck me. My over 40 experiences were:
1) 49 y.o.-2hr drive-worth every minute and even with no sex. Cute, bubbly, everything I could want. I was really smitten. No sex was purely my fault as she asked me several times during dinner and afterward if I was staying over...missed my chance here--big time. She has since, I assume, found what she is looking for. Her profile is still on SA, but hasn't been on since.
2) late 40's early 50's....BSC flake....not worth the drive to see
3) 44 y.o. Face was OK, bod was athletic and tight. Wore short cut off denim. Legs to the moon! I just didn't feel we were on the same page about what we wanted.
The search continues and I will just fuck the 20 somethings until I find.."the one".
Scb..I've been conversing with a 40 yr old on SA. And she's a 9/9 ter scale type. What worries me is her pics seem to be that of a mid to late 20's girl..thinking catfish here. I'm thinking of requesting face time or Skype with her just to make sure she's legit..because I've gotta travel 80 miles to see her everytime. And, she wants a gift of 300.00. And she doesnt host.. would you as that of her? Or, tell her she needs to come to you at a designated hotel?
What I would do however is to schedule an early evening date for dinner or drinks with the "option" to move it BCD if you are both "feeling it" If she's catfishing you, you aren't facing a drive of over an hour late at night, and by no means would I agree to give her a penny if you aren't happy with her looks.
Obviously, i wouldn't actually book the hotel until and unless you are happy with what you see.
and what is this 80 miles 'everytime" you see her, if you like her the 80 miles is not that big a deal and if you don't, I would hope it would be the one and only time you ever meet.
I agree completely about the 20 yo SBs. I'm seeing three SBs, ages are mid 40s, early 50s and 30. The oldest one is the freakiest most energetic sex pleaser I've met in either the pro or SB world (admittedly my experience in the bowl is sparse, just those three). The mid40s is a complete sweetheart and I immediately agreed to her incredibly low monthly allowance ask. I pay it in advance because it's so affordable and it makes her super sweet and there's never a whiff of transaction in our weekly meets. The 30s is mature beyond her years and is a goddess. As in the pro world, once you're in the mid30s and above in stated age of SBs, just add 5 years.
Posted By: yarled
I have stayed away from this world because of an impression that it becomes a huge time commitment, and that most of the action is for needy SBs in their 20s. I have gotten just too old to deal with that drama. So the question is: is it realistic to find SBs in their 40s on SA who, while needy, may be doing it more for the extras they would enjoy in life, as opposed to making the car payment just as the tow truck arrives? Or the rent before the eviction notice gets served? Any perspectives on fishing in the older pools of SA (or another site if there is one for the older set) would be greatly appreciated.
I thought I was pushing my upper age limit messaging a 27 yo, haha. Oldest SB I've banged was 23. I feel like older women are readily available to me for cheaper if I went on Ashley Madison or signed up looking for a sugar mama. Also feel like it's ever so slightly riskier because it's more likely they could be a friend of my wife's or something like that. SA is probably not the best site for finding older women.
But I prefer the word "experienced in life" vs older. We are all getting older, that's a fact of life, until someone comes up with a youth serum to keep us in our 20's (although no thanks for me). I say embrace it or don't, it'll be much easier if you just do lol. Find your sweet spot in all aspects of your life at any age and you'll be a much happier person overall.
Interesting use of words however in this thread from many. Gave me a good chuckle lol.
"Older" is better where it comes to fine wines and aged whiskeys, in hookers and SB's, not so much. lol
and speaking for myself, I have found my "sweet spot" where it comes to women, and that sweet spot extends from barely legal up to early thirties for white and black women, mid thirties for Latinas and late thirties for Asian women, with a few notable exceptions within all races who manage to age exceptionally well.
I am glad we could give you a good chuckle, considering how many good chuckles you have given us over the years it's the least we could do.
You must still have the remnants of your Stevie persona in your Dylan DNA, or you must be back on your meds again. Either way, good comeback. Maybe we can laugh "with" Dylan as opposed to laughing "at" BSCTaylor?
... and after about one month their administration deleted my profile .. humph! So I designed a Secret Arrangement page on my website. Ha! ~ I enjoyed reading all of your varied responses.
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