Coming to terms with a POT SB and at the very end she says non-sexual right?
I sarcastically said yes I figured we would just talk on the phone and after every phone conversation I would VENMO her $500... She said yes with a bunch of emojis following - Really?!?But don't ever assume that a gal is being sarcastic or otherwise anything other than honest when it comes to money or sex.
The odds will not favor you.
I always make sure to make a comment or reply that infers I will provide sugar AFTER fun times and never before or without. I don't mind meeting once or twice without BCD to "get comfortable" with each other, but will never offer sugar for that, although I may give a small token or $50 gift on the 1st meeting.
Venmo is an interesting channel since a big attraction for the millennial crowd is the social sharing aspect, whereby each payment made through Venmo is broadcast to the user's contacts and friends, with varying amounts of data included based on the user's settings.
So if she (and you!) are not careful, when you send her funds through Venmo and add a message like "Thanks for taking my huge load in your tight pussy. Here's $400 for taking it up the ass, too!", that might get seen by people you don't intend to see it. Not to mention that Venmo monitors that message and other data to block payments that might be associated with illegal activity ie: "Here's $20 for that heroin hit".
but is always worth repeating; early in the conversation make it clear to them that you expect to have sex with them.