So as the number of POT's who check either "Light" or "Heavy" smokers is diminishing, I am seeing an increase in POT's who check "Non-smoker" and who I later learn, vape. I'm not a fan of vaping, either with nicotine or without.  Heavy smokers get nowhere with me, no matter how hot. I'm not interested. I may consider a light smoker on occasion if she can keep it outside and away from me, and her bad breath kung-fu means I never smell it. I've also seen POT's who check non-smoker but - brace yourselves! - lie! All part of the selection process, to be sure.  

 
I do see a fair number of POT's mention 420 in their About Me or Seeking sections. I'm generally neutral to this - I don't use weed as it's never really interested me. I prefer wine and single-malt, thank you.  And I believe there are vape products than contain cannabis as well.  

 
But there's nothing in the profile that asks about vaping. I haven't seen it as a deal breaker - yet. But I do care if she's vaping nicotine (we don't know about "2nd hand vapor" yet) and I'm not a fan of my furniture and car smelling like blueberries & sage for a week after she leaves.  

 
So should there be an extra check box or two (or three?) in the smoking section of the profile ? Maybe add:
__Vape (no nicotine)
__Vape (with nicotine)
__Vape (with CBD/Cannabis)  
I suppose these should be on both SB and SD profiles.  

Thoughts?  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

While vaping does not seem to leave a girl smelling and tasting like dogshit the way heavy smoking does, it's still something I'd avoid if possible and at least would like a heads up about beforehand.  I could then request that she only vape outdoors. It would be much better than only discovering her vaping after we go bcd and be forced to complain about it then.  I had one very PYT who quit smoking cigarettes and started vaping during the year we dated. I agree the vaping was less harmful, but told her that vaping is still a health threat. She has since dumped me but not the vaping, so there you go!

And there is it.... her profile says she really wants a mentor, someone who's learned the difficult life lessons and who can help her get ahead of the curve... she even suggests that's more important than the financial help.  

 
Until... until you point out that one of her totally optional vice can be a serious threat to her health. LOL  

 
So I guess the endorphins she gets from inhaling burning chemical smoke are more powerful that the ones she gets from cash, sound business/financial advice and life coaching, and probably the best oral sex she's ever had (or ever will have).  Like they say, youth is wasted on the young.  

 
There you go, indeed! :p  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat