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Looking for your tips to manage communications off platform assuming opsec, 1 device (I know 2 Is suggested). Text? Email? What's your approach? Looking to sugar utr. And not get caught. A bit about me... 6 years married hobbying, first time sugaring. Not caught yet, not gonna get stuck now.-- Modified on 2/17/2024 2:41:20 PM
These days most young women think email is something for dinosaurs from the dark ages. It's generally a non starter. Texting is good, and is my preference. However many girls are hesitant to give their phone number to a stranger, so there's that. These days when I suggest moving our conversation offsite they usually ask if I have snap, whatsapp, or Telegram. In addition to offering better opsec, your use of those platforms shows you are up to date with modern methods.
I'll dig a bit deeper into the apps Papa Sweet mentioned.
SnapChat sucks. Once you read a message it generally disappears. This may be good for opsec, but if you are bouncing between 2 or more POT's/SB's it easy to lose the context of the message thread. If you screen shot a message, she gets a notice and you look suspicious.
WhatsApp and Telegram are better, but... beware that these apps are very popular outside the US as well as within. Why? because both allow the user to hide their phone number and both use internet to connect, meaning users can talk across the globe for free and without a traceable phone record. This makes these good for both poor women who can't afford cell service, and scammers - beware.
Most US-based POT's will have a US cell phone. I use a Google voice phone number and the Google Voice app to text. Pro tip: I also set up my WhatsApp account with my Google Voice number.
Finally, WhatsApp, owned by Meta (ie: Facebook) uses "end to end" encryption. Meaning the message on the phone is encrypted on your device before it gets sent to her, and it gets decrypted only on her device. There is no man-in-the-middle needed to manage encryption/decryption in some central server.
Finally, you will notice that with small devices and small message lengths grammar, spelling and specificity are dying skills. You need to get used to abbreviations like "wyd" "idk" "ttyl" "dtf" and a ton of emoticons, especially fruit-based emoticons that generally denote sex or certain areas of anatomy.
Feeling old yet? LOL Just bang a few 20-somethings and you will feel younger.
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Concur that Snapchat auto-deletes messages, so useless for keeping track of anything. Also concur that email is uncommon because they'd have to set one up that is anonymous. Often email addresses include some real world info.
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Both Telegram and WhatsApp are end to end encrypted. We know from Tucker Carlson experience that encrypted apps are routinely read by intelligence agencies. But generally not used by LE internally in the USA.
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I use cellular text for most encounters.
It’s great for texting and calling like a real phone numbers but sits like a discreet app on your phone
Hide it away in a folder and when you are communicating w SBs, keep your phone on do not disturb mode so that sideline notifications don’t suddenly show up. Also make sure settings are set to not showing message previews